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    jake.gardener
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    December 11, 2017 at 8:57 am #159654
    Advice: How do I follow up with this girl that I like to set up a third date…

    Gone on 2 dates with great girl (tinder) – 1st was drinks, 2nd was crazy golf – both fun and we kissed. Texted her the evening after 2nd date asking if she was free tomorrow (Friday) – my thinking here was some girls are waiting for guys to have some balls and ask them out and I didn’t want her to think I wasn’t interested. She teased me saying ‘twice in a week, very eager ;)’ so it seemed she took it well calling it ‘cute’, and then said she’s completely busy till next saturday. I made a joke about me being too keen and she said she might be free for a little bit on Tuesday actually.

    However, I have plans on Tuesday (that I’d move to see her) but I don’t want to come across as too available and say yes to everything. So I replied jokingly that ‘will be hard as I’ve blocked out the eve to practise my crazy golf technique (as she beat me) and that I’m sure we can sort something out soon :)’

    4 days have passed and she hasn’t responded but I don’t want to be too needy. What should I do?