Advice needed on a girl that I messed it up with

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Advice needed on a girl that I messed it up with

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    lo91
    lo91
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    November 16, 2018 at 1:43 pm #189497
    Advice needed on a girl that I messed it up with

    Hi Guys

    So i work with this girl. We started randomly speaking after 8 months of working today. We had good chat, and talked all day. I was into her, and she told her friends she was into me. We have been on a couple dates, and it was nice. Only kissed nothing else.

    However, I feel like I have been too needy, too keen, and was way too serious about the situation, forgetting it should be fun this early on.

    She has now said, she doesn’t feel a spark or buzz with me and therefore has called it off. She has admitted in the past i’m not her normal type

    I am a good looking guy, however I do get emotionally attached too quick. I do like this girl and I feel like I have blown it.

    I have read I should ignore her etc, forget about her, but I see her everyday at work. I do want her back.

    What would be the best thing to do right now?

    Treblecleff33
    Treblecleff33
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    November 16, 2018 at 6:18 pm #189589

    I totally understand. I just did this to a guy I work with as well and it stinks. I feel like though if it is the right person for you then they will come back. I would maybe just give it some time and if she doesn’t come back then wait for a girl that will and likes you for you.

    SimplyMe
    SimplyMe
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    November 17, 2018 at 3:41 am #189590

    Move on. Focus yourself to work, families and friends. Time flies quickly before you know it you already moved on.