After a conversation i always have like oh, i could have say this or that

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After a conversation i always have like oh, i could have say this or that

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    rob75
    rob75
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    November 7, 2018 at 8:12 am #188898
    After a conversation i always have like oh, i could have say this or that

    Hi,

    After a conversation with a woman, i always have like, oh i could have say this or that to be funny. When i’m talking to a woman, it’s like nothing funny comes up. At work i’m making fun with women colleagues, but as soon as i have a conversation with a woman i like, in person or chatting online no funny things come up. Can someone pleas tell what the reason behind this is and how to overcome it. Thanks

    lynn123
    lynn123
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    November 7, 2018 at 10:19 pm #188972

    maybe you are feeling nervous when you are one on one with a woman? Try and not put so much pressure on yourself or overthink the situation. Be yourself and I’m sure everyone will appreciate you the way you are.

    rob75
    rob75
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    November 8, 2018 at 10:24 am #188992

    Yes, i must admit i’m nervous and i don’t like it. Everyone is telling me be yourself, but i can’t get rid of that nervous feeling. Is there something else i can do to get rid of this feeling. Something to keep in mind when speaking.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    November 8, 2018 at 12:34 pm #189032

    What you described is quite normal for most people.
    The only cure is engaging with women more and more.
    Eventually you relax to the point where flirting and using sexual innuendo comes naturally based upon their comments.

    Confidence comes with doing something over and over again.
    In the mean time you might memorize some funny/cute pickup lines and antidotes you can use to break the ice.
    Being able to read a person and determine how receptive they are to certain humor comes with experience.

    rob75
    rob75
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    November 8, 2018 at 4:28 pm #189044

    Thanks, but memorizing pickup lines and antidotes is not what i really want. I used some in the past, but my timing to use them was bad or they did not fit well in. I want to have ideas or links on the fly. I want to be authentic.