Age Difference

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Age Difference

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    Mtaew18
    Mtaew18
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    December 10, 2018 at 3:10 am #190764
    Age Difference

    I recently started a new job and find out that one of my co-workers liked me. I am currently 19 and he is 16. He’s really cute and sweet. Today, He tried to kiss me. I know that there will be things that are not allowed in our relationship due to law, but should I continue to respond to him while obeying those laws?

    • This topic was modified 9 months, 1 week ago by Mtaew18 Mtaew18.
    whoami
    whoami
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    December 12, 2018 at 1:29 pm #190928

    I think that you should just stay friends with him for now till he’s older

    bigheartcoldworld
    bigheartcoldworld
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    December 12, 2018 at 10:11 pm #190968

    Not only could you be in a lot of trouble with the law for being with him but he is also not on your maturity level. You’re older and wiser… just because he’s cute doesn’t mean you should date. If you were to end up actually really liking him, he’s a 16 year old boy, he won’t know what to do or how to be in a relationship with you. Maybe find someone legal and mature haha

    Mtaew18
    Mtaew18
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    December 12, 2018 at 10:16 pm #190970

    The problem is that he really doesn’t act like a typical 16-year old boy and seems to be on a whole different level of maturity that I rarely see in 20 years old or 30 years old.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    December 20, 2018 at 12:04 am #191453

    You should avoid doing anything which could be construed as sexual contact with a minor.
    “The problem is that he really doesn’t act like a typical 16-year old boy…”

    No the “problem” is you’re looking to justify breaking the law.
    You’re attracted to an underage boy who you want to have sex with.
    Lets be honest this 16 year old is not your “soulmate” and this is not going to be a happily ever after ending.

    Impulsive connections and {short-term thinking} have destroyed many people’s lives.
    Surly there must be some 18 year old boys and older guys you could be dating.
    If two years from now you feel the same attraction towards him then you can legally go for it.
    No 16 year old boy is worth risking going to jail over or losing a job.

    Mtaew18
    Mtaew18
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    December 20, 2018 at 8:31 am #191457

    True, I have forgotten though that in that state laws have consequences, but that depends on what the state is. In my state, legally 16 years old and up can date whoever they want due to the fact that we have no Romeo and Juliet laws. However, he will be leaving the job soon and I will most likely never see him again so I know that there probably will be no sexual lines crossed.

    MiaPia123
    MiaPia123
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    December 20, 2018 at 12:38 pm #191484

    You should wait until he’s not a minor anymore