Am I just a friend or is there something more?


Am I just a friend or is there something more?

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    November 26, 2015 at 2:47 am #89015
    Am I just a friend or is there something more?

    Hi guys!

    There’s a girl that I like. We met a year and a half ago and she had a long time boyfriend that she broke up later. I asked her then on a date and she said she has a boyfried so I backed off.

    We’ve stayed more or less in touch since then. I also got in a strange, abusive relationship that I couldn’t take anymore and broke it off a month and a half ago. She had been talking to me about all that shit over the phone and it ended up us hearing nearly each day.

    I cooled off from her when she told me she had a boyfriend the first time but I started to develop feelings again and some things bug me out.

    She is relaxed with me and doesn’t seem bothered if I touch her, hug her or anything. She laughs to the things I say and notices things I’m wearing. She doesn’t touch me as much as I do her. Talks with me about anything and compliments me on things. Yesterday she put her bag between us and kept a bit of distance. I noticed her pupils dilate. Should I back off? Tell her?

    November 26, 2015 at 4:36 pm #89028

    She sees you as a friends. The distance with the bag between you guys is a subtle sign that she isn’t interested in you intimately. She friend zoned you. You should probably move on. But if you really like this girl, try ignoring her and not showing her much attention anymore and see if she comes back to you. Girls sometimes develop feelings when your no longer there.

    November 28, 2015 at 9:27 am #89018

    Maybe tell her how you feel about her and see what she says. Just be direct and stop guessing.