am i the bad guy?

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am i the bad guy?

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    sunflowerss
    sunflowerss
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    October 23, 2019 at 8:45 am #223861
    am i the bad guy?

    so there’s this guy who i met over the summer, and he has a girlfriend. apparently they’ve been dating for about a year and a half, but their relationship has going downward. over the past months he and i have gotten close to where we go out to lunch, go to a concert, or something else at least once a week. he goes to my personal events/accomplishments. there’s a lot of subtle flirty texting between us when we aren’t together. i’ve fallen to where i have feelings for him, but i’m not sure if he feels the same way. he’s a really good guy so i’m scared i’m splitting up a good relationship and i also don’t want to be ‘the side chick’. his girlfriend does not like me. am i in the wrong?

    Rivens
    Rivens
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    October 23, 2019 at 12:07 pm #223867

    Thats a tough one! I was in a similar situation and decided to just push the friend agenda instead. i haven’t regretted it bc she’s been there for me since like no other. I would distance your romantic feelings a bit and cherish the friendship.

    October 24, 2019 at 12:13 am #223888

    hard to say

    Bhersh01
    Bhersh01
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    October 25, 2019 at 2:51 pm #224035

    Just be his friend. While it may be hard to avoid showing your true feelings, it will save you in the long wrong.