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What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!September 9, 2014 at 6:14 pm #61093
Ok so skipping past all the details, let me start by saying I grew up in a wealthy family. When I was younger I had no issues meeting girls. Now I am completely independent / distanced from my family. Over the past 5 years (I am 24 now) I have been focusing on building up my life with little to no time to meet girls. Now I am trying to meet someone I can connect with and I decided to try some phone dating apps (OKCupid, POF, and tinder). I have had little to no success. This is leading me to believe that physically I am unattractive, which is fine. But if thats the case I need to know so I can change my approach. Dont worry about hurting my feelings, you wont. Please respond with a 1-10 scale rating and any additional comments you want to add. Here are the photos on my dating profile (In the order they are displayed):
AdamSParticipantSeptember 9, 2014 at 7:14 pm #61207
In my opinion,
confidence if everything. There’s a recent video on YT where people dressed themselves in fat suits, or acne masks and crap like that but went up to girls, were confident about themselves and managed to get their numbers.
Your bio is fine, it’s great in fact, however in my honest opinion, you won’t get anywhere with apps that help you with dating.
Get out there, on the streets, and the results will be much better.
Brutus777ParticipantSeptember 9, 2014 at 7:26 pm #61218
Well in my opinion, no. It should not matter what your look like. It is all about confidence! Maybe trying having different approaches too. What I would do is go a coffee shop before work, go the gym or the bar after work, to get best results.September 10, 2014 at 8:36 am #61220
Thanks for the feedback but the reason why I was asking was because on these dating apps where they are quite superficial, my results are definitely low compared to most other people (basing this one conversations I’ve overheard and posts I’ve read online).
I can’t stand the bar scene. Coffee makes me sick. I do go to the gym (regularly) but when I do I get so focused on my workout I don’t even notice anyone around me. Also between college and my professional career, my time is pretty contained. I am interested in meet girls but I will not stop doing the things that make me happy (outdoor activities and exercising) so I can make time to go places and look for them.September 10, 2014 at 8:36 am #61223
Thanks for the feedback but the reason why I was asking was because on these dating apps they are quite superficial, my results (1-2 matches per week) are definitely low compared to most other people (basing this one conversations I’ve overheard and posts I’ve read online).
I can’t stand the bar scene. Coffee makes me sick. I do go to the gym (regularly) but when I do I get so focused on my workout I don’t even notice anyone around me. Also between college and my professional career, my time is pretty contained. I am interested in meet girls but I will not stop doing the things that make me happy (outdoor activities and exercising) so I can make time to go places and look for them.
Instinct101ParticipantSeptember 12, 2014 at 2:58 am #61832
I haven’t even read your story yet. The answer is no. Not to everyone, but to some. As can be said of us all.
TheHypeParticipantSeptember 12, 2014 at 12:38 pm #61870
Na dude. theres uglier dudes, just ditch that costume pic. Girls only seem to care for confidence and then looks.
SashaCParticipantSeptember 12, 2014 at 8:01 pm #61907
confidence is King! And someone will find you attractive
AnonymousSeptember 13, 2014 at 10:38 am #61910
It should not matter what you look like.
theultimategolyosnsnwkkParticipantSeptember 14, 2014 at 9:21 am #61938
Not ugly imo. Personality is first, then looks.
kevin8878ParticipantSeptember 15, 2014 at 2:27 am #61964
no you’re average. just need confidence
DanteDMCParticipantSeptember 16, 2014 at 9:47 am #62021
Love yourself. Learn, read books, be an interesting conversationalist, and then you will not be thinking about such nonsense. No, you’re not ugly! And go to the gym, Increase self-esteem
anotherguyaskingforrelationshipadviceParticipantSeptember 17, 2014 at 7:45 pm #62080
i hate that word
i hope you realize that ‘ugly’ was invented… it is not a real thing
Yung_BenjiParticipantSeptember 18, 2014 at 10:56 am #62141
I’m a guy actually, but anyways.
You look good. I I was a girl, I’d probably wouldn’t reject you ONLY because of how you look. So yeah, you’ve passed this.
All depends on who you really are now, how you talk, and if you’re an interesting person in total. Also, I believe you should look more classy. It appeals to you.
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