And they say that women are hard to read 😂

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And they say that women are hard to read 😂

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    Clueless1899
    Clueless1899
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    September 5, 2019 at 7:28 am #206542
    And they say that women are hard to read 😂

    Hello. A few weeks ago I met a guy. Didn’t think anything would happen between us but we’re still talking and seeing each other 3-4 times a week. We get on very well and things are going well, I think. There are a few things that make me wonder if he’s only after sex or possibly something more eventually.
    – when we chat fave to face it’s great but when it comes to texting, he often leaves me with conversation killers. Most of the time I don’t message him back after that, as to me it’s a sign someone can’t be bothered with having a conversation, but then he usually texts me again after a few mins asking how’s my day been etc. So maybe just not good with texting?
    – we have very different schedules and meeting during the day is almost impossible, so we tend to just either get a couple of drink after I finish or he’d come to my house/I’d go to his. Because of that I kind of feel like it’s just sex as we very rarely meet up before 9pm due to my work schedule. Continuation in comments.

    Clueless1899
    Clueless1899
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    September 5, 2019 at 7:31 am #206543

    He’s been to my house and met my brothers though, which I feel like a person who’s just after sex wouldn’t do. I met some of his mates too.
    – He doesn’t ask me many personal questions about my interest, family or anything like that.

    I know we’ve just met and I am being realistic here but I’d like to clarify with him what are we doing. Whether it’s just sex or is he genuinely interested in me. I have no clue how to start that conversation though, in a way that won’t scare him away.

    Do you have any ideas how could I kind of hint it to him? And do you think he’s only after sex ?

    Thank you 🙂

    • This reply was modified 1 month, 1 week ago by Clueless1899 Clueless1899.
    Sia2020
    Sia2020
    Participant
    September 11, 2019 at 5:48 pm #206925

    Avoid hinting and be upfront. You gave him your body which is personal and sacred. I encourage you going forward to ask this before getting intimate. He seems like he’s into you but you need to be more upfront.