Anyone's Perspective Please!!

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Anyone's Perspective Please!!

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    Oh Boy!!
    Oh Boy!!
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    March 28, 2018 at 9:44 pm #168866
    Anyone's Perspective Please!!

    I’ve been I guess casually dating this guy since January, but within the last month or so he’s been seemingly distant. We had made plans to go out a couple Fridays ago and he cancelled the day of. I took that as a not interested so I didn’t text him, so a week later he texted me. We’ve chatted a little since then. So last night I asked him if he wanted to do something tonight and he never gave a straight answer so today I told him I made other plans and he said he understood. We have not slept together as a matter of fact he hasn’t even tried to kiss me the several times we’ve gone out and before you tell me to kiss um first well, that’s a little more complicated as he’s a foot taller than I. WTF is his deal? If he isn’t interested then why the hell is he still messaging/calling me? I obviously want more but not at the price of my dignity.

    SubwayVQ
    SubwayVQ
    Participant
    March 29, 2018 at 7:29 pm #169084

    He probably doesn’t want to be a douche by just straight up telling you. But to me, it seems like he isn’t interested

    SuzyQ00
    SuzyQ00
    Participant
    March 30, 2018 at 12:48 pm #169163

    I would let him come to you

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    April 7, 2018 at 2:22 pm #169877

    If you’ve been dating a guy for about 4 months and he hasn’t attempted to kiss you he probably not romantically interested in (you).
    Instead of getting caught up in the trying to “figure him out” or wondering “what’s wrong with me” game…move on.
    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    Kanga
    Kanga
    Participant
    April 8, 2018 at 12:49 pm #169896

    I have to agree with what others have said. I think by now (since Jan and having hung out a few times) if he was interested he would have made some sort of move. It’s possible he likes or only sees you as a friend, reappears because he likes access to you or unfortunately maybe is just in need of some attention? I feel ya tho! I would suggest reaching out one more time and see how he responds as far as hanging out. If he has an excuse (valid) and he does like you he should offer an alternative/counter offer. If he doesn’t I think it would be best if you let go and not invest more energy into someone who after roughly 4months isn’t sure or doesn’t know what they want.

    Mcar3400
    Mcar3400
    Participant
    April 8, 2018 at 7:23 pm #169906

    I would start dating other people who are actually interested in you. You don’t have time for games.