Are women in Bangkok used to bring friend on date?

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Are women in Bangkok used to bring friend on date?

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    MasonDavis1979
    MasonDavis1979
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    June 25, 2018 at 3:41 am #177837
    Are women in Bangkok used to bring friend on date?

    When I went to Thailand last month, I met a girl in a club who swept me off her feet. She is sweet and caring. I asked her out one time but I was shocked when I saw her walking closer toward me with a friend at her back. I used to date women from USA before and they came to dates alone. However, single women in Thailand are very vigilant. I wonder if they are really like that or she just thought I’m some kind of a murderer that’s why she brought a friend along. I want to ask her out on a date again but I want us to be alone this time. Is that possible? If I tell her that, will she agree? Doesn’t it sound insulting for them?

    pisceslady89_
    pisceslady89_
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    June 26, 2018 at 9:28 am #177943

    You can ask her if its okay if its just the two of you. And ask her during day time. Maybe she just wanted to make sure that you wont donanythig to her. Some asians are like this. They are very shy and very careful especially with foreigner men.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    June 28, 2018 at 10:07 am #178216

    It could be a cultural thing whereby women who go out alone with a man are viewed as being a “couple”.
    She also might not trust you at this stage. The best way to getting close with any woman is to make her feel safe.
    Another possibility is {she wants a husband} and doesn’t want you think she’s the type of girl who goes out alone with men all the time.
    If you’re really “into her” you won’t try to force her to change her “mate selection/screening process.”

    You said: “I met a girl in a club who swept me off my feet.” (Did you feel as if there was a {mutual attraction}
    You don’t want to be a sap getting used to buy meals/drinks/entertainment for her and all of her friends.

    Men generally ask women out who (they find attractive)!
    A woman on the other hand may say yes to a {date or activity} but not necessarily mean she’s saying yes to “the man”.
    She may not have had any plans, thought you seemed “nice”, or thought; why not? It’s a (free) night out!