Arranging a second date

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Arranging a second date

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    jinx
    jinx
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    March 27, 2018 at 1:39 pm #168653
    Arranging a second date

    Here’s my story: I met a cool girl at a party that I’m interested in. Post-party I added her on Facebook, started chatting with her and as we seemed to have a lot to talk about I invited her out. She agreed, but as I was just leaving the town, we couldn’t arrange anything specific. From there on I didn’t talk to her until I had about 3 days until I returned to the town and initiated the contact once again to agree on the specific date and time to meet. Everything went well, we met for a dinner and seemed to have nice time together. We talked a lot and at the end of the evening I asked whether she would like to meet again in the future without going into any details. She agreed and we both went home.

    The next morning I sent her a message about something random about the last evening hoping to kick off the conversation. Initially it seemed to work out fine as she responded instantly, but at some point I left it hanging to see where it leads.

    jinx
    jinx
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    March 27, 2018 at 1:39 pm #168654

    Unfortunately she’s been online quite a lot of times and has not responded to my message during two days which leaves me a bit confused.

    Considering that she did not say “no” to my proposal to meet up once again I’m sure that I have a chance to ask her out. How would you proceed from this point? I will be out of town once again for a week and I think after I come back she’s away for a week. Should I just cut the contact for a week and talk to her next week? Should I follow up now (though it seems kind of needy)? Or should I just move forward?