Asking Girl Out Over Text

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Asking Girl Out Over Text

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    weldon25
    weldon25
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    November 28, 2018 at 5:33 am #190026
    Asking Girl Out Over Text

    This girl that dated one of my best friends for a couple years has signalled that she is interested in me many times and has not been in a relationship for months. I briefly texted her and she was responding positively to my texts.

    Should I ask her out over text even though I only texted her on one day for the last 6 months or should I build more sexual tension and ask her out in a week or so?

    I am sure she is interested in me and I am willing to ask her out over text.

    I do not care what my friends think.

    Thanks

    coolaij
    coolaij
    Participant
    November 29, 2018 at 11:07 pm #190288

    asking out over text is good if u shy.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    December 2, 2018 at 3:00 pm #190401

    “I am sure she is interested in me and I am willing to ask her out over text.”

    If the above statement is true CALL her and ask her out.
    Texting seems cowardly especially if you have not already had any vocal conversations or gone out.

    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!

    As a side note you also might want to run it past your “best friend” before asking her out.
    This assumes you’re still best friends.
    One normally would want to give their friend the courtesy of knowing ahead of time instead of shocking them.

    ElisabethTheGreat
    ElisabethTheGreat
    Participant
    December 4, 2018 at 1:26 pm #190485

    Sometimes it’s easier over text.yiu can rethink what you wanna say, and just press send 😊

    Savvy
    Savvy
    Participant
    December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm #190633

    Sometimes it’s easier over text if your shy, I say go for it.

    kayak2133
    kayak2133
    Participant
    December 6, 2018 at 5:19 pm #190647

    Ask her out over text.

    dl627
    dl627
    Participant
    December 9, 2018 at 11:23 pm #190758

    Sure, I asked my girlfriend out over text too bc I’m shy 🙂

    daniellesarah16
    daniellesarah16
    Participant
    December 10, 2018 at 12:12 am #190761

    No shame in it. Talk to her over the phone or something if you’re afraid it doesn’t go well and she can use that text against you.

    Mtaew18
    Mtaew18
    Participant
    December 10, 2018 at 3:01 am #190762

    Talk to her in person even though it makes you nervous. It is better to have a physical face to face conversation rather than a text that makes you seem like the adorable friend.

    caroline3000
    caroline3000
    Participant
    December 10, 2018 at 8:04 am #190746

    If you two have already had conversations and know each other then asking her out over text is fine. Most people communicate via text and asking in person is not always the best timing.