Asking out a girl I met 6 months ago

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Asking out a girl I met 6 months ago

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    stoneboy123
    stoneboy123
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    September 29, 2019 at 7:57 pm #207726
    Asking out a girl I met 6 months ago

    I met this nice girl during a surfing vacation about 7 months ago, we talked and she said it was hard for her to find a partner to go to a surf vacation with so I suggested we might go together next year and she gave me her number.
    Problem is that she went on a 5 month vacation after we met and my intentions were to date her so I didn’t want to just text for 5 months, especially when her mind is on vacation and we barely know each other. I texted her about 4 months ago, we had a little chat and eventually she stopped responding so I said to myself that I’ll just wait for her to come back and we’ll see.
    Now she’s back home and I’m not sure how to approach this.
    Do I just say out of the blue “Hi, didn’t want to text you while your mind was elsewhere for 5 months, let’s meet up”?
    Or do I send her a picture that I surf (from today) as a conversation starter and eventually get to ask her out?

    HeatherT
    HeatherT
    Participant
    September 30, 2019 at 3:57 pm #213237

    Never hurts to send a text, see what she has to say? Now that she is back it sounds like you have a lot in common and could potentially be a match?

    IloveCats
    IloveCats
    Participant
    October 1, 2019 at 7:24 am #215542

    It’s probably because of her looks because you’re asking her out.

    FMBJM08
    FMBJM08
    Participant
    October 2, 2019 at 9:08 pm #222887

    I wouldnt send her a picture right away , i will actually text her and just be like “Long time no see , how is it going? ” just like that.. Im sure you like her but sometimes showing that to much can really scare a person. So just be normal to her and be like hey long time no see how is it going , hows life ? and little by little talk to her , see if she even dating but not the first day of talking to her just talk to her normal.. Dont be to odd , either be to pushy.. Thats just my advice.

    Henious88
    Henious88
    Participant
    October 3, 2019 at 8:54 am #222891

    The girl was so cute and you can’t forget her. I have had the same experience. I met a stranger suddenly. At the age of 29, I still can’t forget her. 🙂

    itsdrey
    itsdrey
    Participant
    October 3, 2019 at 11:03 am #222916

    I think you can just ask her out of the blue. Doesnt matter.