Attracted to a girl and need advice

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Attracted to a girl and need advice

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    Jake_noob98
    Jake_noob98
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    February 17, 2018 at 7:05 pm #165801
    Attracted to a girl and need advice

    Hi guys, embrace yourself for this wall of text I have a lot 2 get off my chest but i’ll try and keep it short as possible :D. OK so I’m a 19 year old M student in my second year of uni and I’ve always been bad at speaking 2 girls, I think I just get nervous that I’m going 2 mess things up. I think I’m fairly attractive as girls have told me before and I also work out so its not my lack of confidence in my physical appearance is not what’s causing me to be nervous/shy. Anyway so theres this Cypriot girl on my course who I’ve always noticed and in the last few weeks we’ve started speaking more and more. I really like her and I’m fairly sure she likes me bcos she’s said cute things 2 me like that she likes my eyes and recently we’ve been messaging on Facebook. Anyway the other day she asked me what I was doing for valentines day and I didn’t know what to say bcos I’m awkward like that, In the end I said I’m just going 2 chill with my housemates and then asked her what she was going todo,

    Jake_noob98
    Jake_noob98
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    February 17, 2018 at 7:06 pm #165802

    she said wasn’t doing anything and then we both laughed. Anyway’s I feel now like I should have asked her if she wanted to go out with me but then isn’t valentines meant for already established couple? Idk.
    What I’m scared about most is if I mess it up I will hate myself for it and also will still have go to lectures etc with her there. But if I do nothing then I’l go crazy overthinking about what could have happened. Anyway its really distracting me from my studies atm which is why I need to get everything out there. I want to speak too my friends/family about it but I feel like they will judge me or laugh about it. Also I’ve never spoke about things like this to anyone :p
    Yea I don’t know why I get so nervous before speaking to her because when I’m speaking 2 her I’m fine, it happens all the time though beforehand.
    Thanks guyssss.