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What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!December 2, 2015 at 6:01 am #89235
I’m an introvert and panic anytime a beautiful girl show interest in me. I chat up nerdy girls because it’s fun, I am a nerd, but want to date someone more ‘ordinary.’ I’ve never dated. Closest thing is a fake Facebook/phone relationship with a girl from Florida, I am in west Texas. If any girl flirts with me I panic and try to run away. If she responds to my flirts, I panic and run away. I want enough experience with girls, or maybe guys- never tried it, so I dunno- that I can be decent enough to settle down. I am an overweight 5 feet 6 inches 27 year old Chinese man who vascillates between acting like an annoying child, a pretentious jerk, and an ornery elder. People have this weird habit of telling me they liked me in that way long after they lost interest in me. I have a very flat, droning voice that though I attempt to change, doesn’t. I know kung fun and am damn good at it. I can also draw . Q- what do girls want from me and how do I get over these panic attacks
Jason7ParticipantDecember 2, 2015 at 5:01 pm #89306
First anyone who is approached aggressively, has instinct to pull back. Your panic attacks are not going to disappear overnight. You might try an herb like valerian to relax you in social settings….just be a nice guy…that is what girls want…be friends first and then see if it grows…the biggest mistake guys make is being overly aggressive …this pushes them away no matter who you are.
osubsuParticipantDecember 2, 2015 at 5:26 pm #89309
Go into figuring you have nothing to lose (you don’t). If she’s not into you so what? See it as a chance to practice. Just talk and focus on her. Ask her questions about herself. Don’t talk about yourself. Let her ask about you.December 3, 2015 at 5:07 pm #89400
My fear isn’t rejection. My fear is that it will go somewhere. Example – a girl had a crush on me in college. She wrote me an email. I crushed her crush by taking her on a date and being a drunk idiot. I did this because I didn’t see us going anywhere as a couple and wanted to stay friends, but destroy any romantic attachments she had for me (by the way, I only drink when forced to)
BexSandersParticipantDecember 3, 2015 at 9:50 pm #89419
Confidence is always key. Easier said than done, I know.December 6, 2015 at 9:06 pm #89497
BexSanders, I don’t have issues with faking confidence. With enough practice, I can approach the girls I am interested in, nice, shy, sweet ones who speak their minds and will lead more than follow. But those are incredibly rare where I live (at least the ones that are single). Is there a city or town where there are more of these people?
If I can find such a treasure trove, I’ll practice until I stop fucking up
chloemusic1234ParticipantDecember 8, 2015 at 9:24 am #89694
Dont date until youre happy with your life and who you are. Too many knock backs might make you feel worst
PiikmParticipantDecember 8, 2015 at 10:57 am #89720
Be happy with yourself before you introduce another person into your life.
Remember, your always the prize!
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