Being Aware Without Getting Paranoid


Being Aware Without Getting Paranoid

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    February 14, 2019 at 1:10 pm #194992
    Being Aware Without Getting Paranoid

    I’m at the point now where I’ve gotten a good amount of success with girls. I’ve now experienced the lengths that girls will go to fuck and secure an alpha (willing to fuck without a condom, wanting to come over at 2 AM, offering threesomes and massages, etc.). Of course, this all makes sense from an evolutionary perspective: women will do whatever it takes to secure an alpha’s genes.

    So my problem is not that I’m ignorant of this reality, my problem is that I’ve become paranoid precisely because I’m aware of this reality. More specifically, I’m paranoid that a girl will do anything to become pregnant with my child. I really do not want kids (at least not until way later), and now I’m worried that a girl might manipulate me into having her child.

    Besides wearing condoms, is there anything else I can do to protect myself from fathering a kid? I’m mostly talking about mental and behavioral tips. For example, getting better at detecting the girls who are more likely to do this?

    February 17, 2019 at 2:06 pm #195081

    There are three options men have to prevent getting a woman pregnant.
    1. Abstinence
    2. Get a vasectomy
    3. Always wear condoms properly (They are also good for reducing the odds of getting a STD)

    Having said that every woman who wants to get laid is not trying to “secure an alpha’s genes”
    Some women love sex just as much as men and would most likely take the plan B pill or get an abortion if they got pregnant.

    As for choosing women least likely to want to get pregnant out of wedlock.
    You may want to date educated upwardly mobile career driven women who are outgoing, independent, with lots of friends
    The more things a woman has going for herself the less of a priority it is for her to find a husband or have children.

    Another option is to consider dating (older women) who have already had “the fairytale marriage”, children, and divorced.
    Odds are high they are in no hurry to quickly repeat their experience. They want to enjoy their newfound freedom and independence.