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Galaxy Ranger101ParticipantFebruary 3, 2019 at 2:56 am #194041
Ok so I am 18 going to be 19 in a few days. just to let you people know i have 49, xxxxy syndrome if you dont know what it is look it up on google. I like this girl whos 11 year old but my parents say she is too young? Is she too young? please give me some advice i cant find girls my age who like minecraft pokemon and legos.
GJParticipantFebruary 3, 2019 at 11:24 am #194053
Hello Galaxy Ranger101
Thank you for sharing your struggle. Your parents are correct if your intentions are to have a romantic relationship with an 11 year old child. You are a young adult and she is a child. However if you simply like her as a friend to play minecraft, pokemon, legos, and your family and this 11 year old girl’s family know one another and are okay with you playing together, I see no harm in that. However we need to also consider the feelings of this 11 year old girl. does she want to play with an 18 year old young man.
If you can answer the following questions I will be in a better place to give you more suggestions
1. What you are presently doing in your life; Are you a student, do you have a job, or something else?
2. Tell me about your social life. Do you have friends and tell me about them?
3. What is your interest with girls?
I look forward to reading your responses
franktParticipantFebruary 3, 2019 at 6:42 pm #194061
Any “romantic” relationship you have with the 11 year old could be considered statutory rape. It is okay to be friends only, but any “romantic” involvement could lead to trouble. Her parents have control over her and have the final word. Keep on searching around for girls your own age. Your parents are correct. If your parents and her parents know each other, it is okay to be friends only. But her parents have the final say. She is a child. Plus, won’t it look kind of strange for a 19 year old to be associating with an 11 year old ?
- This reply was modified 2 months, 2 weeks ago by frankt.
aubsluv23ParticipantFebruary 3, 2019 at 7:40 pm #194067
It is best to listen to your parents. Like frank said, it would be considered rape and illegal.
carajaneParticipantFebruary 4, 2019 at 7:19 am #194080
She is way too young for a romantic relationship! You should look somewhere else. It’s best for you and her
licooperParticipantFebruary 10, 2019 at 3:58 pm #194593
I have to agree with above. She is too young for you.
salt.flowParticipantFebruary 10, 2019 at 10:14 pm #194610
Heed your parents and the reasonable commentators above, she is FAR too young to be in a relationship and a relationship with her would be illegal. If you want to meet girls your own age then I would recommend joining online forums related to those interests and making friends with some on there, or ask your parents to help you find clubs or gatherings in your area to attend. Good luck.
asasisa1ParticipantFebruary 12, 2019 at 4:22 am #194750
11 is really really not acceptable for me
MobieDickParticipantFebruary 18, 2019 at 12:46 pm #195109
You might want to ask for help somewhere, probably not here but in a psych or self help forum, with regard to whatever you are going through in terms of your genetic makeup. I doubt that anyone here has a clue. You might want to seek counseling about your attraction to girls that young, unless you are able to drop it and look for a girl who is much closer to your own age. Don’t do anything that might get you thrown into jail.
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