Can I get her back after done the biggest mistake in life??

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Can I get her back after done the biggest mistake in life??

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    oscar5432
    oscar5432
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    January 21, 2018 at 7:01 am #162934
    Can I get her back after done the biggest mistake in life??

    I have talked to a girl online for kinda long now, its got on very great, its confusing if it friendship or not, it´s a friend officially speaking, since we have not like officially turned it to a relationship. But I have feelings for her& had signs back, so could say its on another level, however the passed weeks been tuff in conversations, “how are u” &then like “well” back& forth for have nothing to say a few times, then no more. I have felt very down lately, (mostly for that) felt desperation, anger& sadness, missed her even during times we talked. However had a message from a random girl, nice friendly conversation, nothing wrong, but then she asked for a “flirt chat”, I, in my situation got happy for attention I felt I needed, so I accepted the “invite” without think clearly at all, without consider right& wrong. It however turned out to be test, it was her friend (guess cause of the lack of proper conversation) I hate myself, she hates me. I need her. What should I do?
    Thank you

    richiro
    richiro
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    January 23, 2018 at 3:36 pm #163207

    no interest on her end. sorry.
    if she were interested she’d be making sure to push it that way and be fishing to find out if you’re intersted in her back.

    remember.. that we want them doesn’t make it a relatoinship. it takes 2 people wanting each other AND actually doing something about it to be a relationships. Neither has happened here.

    The fastest way to find out – is to ask her out on a date. You’ll get the definitive answer then and there.

    Anonymous1925
    Anonymous1925
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    January 23, 2018 at 10:00 pm #163244

    You can try but I would personally start looking again.

    abree.aletta
    abree.aletta
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    January 25, 2018 at 1:47 am #163335

    Nothing you can do will restore trust once lost this way. You can make up any excuse but all a woman will know is you are disloyal and dishonest about your feelings. It will have to be up to the person who’s trust you broken to forgive you or not. It is her choice. Things seemed to be gong downhill from and you hesitated to say anything. When a person is unhappy or loses interest it will show up in behavior eventually. I don’t think what you feel for this woman is stable emotions and I don’t think it has legitimacy. If you felt she was ignoring you or being dismissive there is obviously some trouble in paradise. She became distant and dismissive and you flirted with another woman. .