Can't get her outta my head!


Can't get her outta my head!

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    October 1, 2017 at 9:26 pm #151070
    Can't get her outta my head!

    Hi, I have this woman for 3 yrs and I believe we really click. Dues to both our schedules we have rarely met up until she’s had a few drinks in her. On those occasions she is totally into me and I her. I have no doubt there is a connection. The problem is that when we meet up sober (ps. I’m always sober and have no problem with her drinking) she is a different person; closed up, not affectionate and always seems in a hurry to get away. As well, I am concerned that I am the one initiating all contact. I’ve point blank told her how I feel and she seems fine with it but never reciprocates by admitting the same.

    I am at wits end and don’t know what to do. I think about her all the time and I know we would make a great match. My friends believe that she had a bad experience dating previously and is scared to go down that path again.

    Does it really matter if initiating contact is one way only? When do you give up and move on?