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[r.gonzolvazParticipant]

April 4, 2014 at 4:41 am #50447

Can't watch my bro suffer anymore .. Girls won't date him cuz he can't have kids

When I was younger, my bro who is 2 yrs older had testicular cancer. He’a okay now but he had both testicals removed and now he’s 26. But since then every girl he’s dated kicked him to the curb as soon as they found out. So obviously he can’t have kids either & it’s taking a toll on him. Whenever there’s a marriage, baby ect in the family, he shows up to congratulate whoever it is but then I usually notice him disappearing and find him alone moping or even crying sometimes. He won’t usually admit he’s upset & if he does he says something like “wish I could have that” & brushes it off. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t want to invite him or tell him about these things because I know it’s like a kick in the gut to him every time. And on top of that, now if he wants to ask a girl out it’s a whole big to do for him and he panics over it sometimes & almost never ends up doing it. I can’t watch this shit happen to him anymore. I wish girls were less shallow. Any advice please!