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annayoungParticipantDecember 7, 2019 at 11:12 am #226271
I’ve been seeing this guy for 2 months. He really cares for me, we went on a date, had dinner, introduced me to his friends, he stayed over and we even had sex and i fall for him but i just found out that he has a girlfriend who he has been dating for years. What should i do? Should i confront him?
dashingscorpioParticipantDecember 9, 2019 at 6:00 pm #226345
Did you ever ask him if he had a girlfriend or was dating other women?
Did he proclaim the two of you were in an exclusive/committed relationship?
Or Did YOU mistake a “situationship” for a relationship?
What do (you) hope to gain by confronting him?
Do you really think he’s going to dump his girlfriend he’s been dating for (years)?
Like it or not YOU are the “other woman” or “side piece” in this scenario.
Simply cut off all contact with him and start dating other guys.
Be glad you found out in 8 weeks instead of eight months or years.
Ultimately you have found out what type of guy he is. You must decide if cheating is a “deal breaker”.
The ball is in your court as to whether you want to continue to date a known cheater or stop seeing him.
Clearly the fact that he introduced you to his friends proves (they) are likely in on his activities.
If you’re done with him don’t waste your time or energy confronting him.
Forgive yourself for falling for him and move on.
frank34ParticipantDecember 10, 2019 at 8:37 am #226356
if you were a virgin before having sex with him then you should follow him and ask him to marry you or stay with you. and if you already have done sex before him then you should move to another guy.
I’ve been seeing this guy for 2 months. He really cares for me, we went on a date, had dinner, introduced me to his friends, he stayed over and we even had sex and I fall for him but I just found out that he has a girlfriend who he has been dating for years. What should I do? Should I confront him?
sophieParticipantDecember 10, 2019 at 11:24 am #226382
I would walk away before you get really invested in this relationship. It sounds like he does not really respect women or relationships. If he thinks its acceptable to date more than one person at once, especially moving forward such as introducing you to friends, I would stay clear. Confront if it will help you but I think he will likely turn it on you saying its early days etc. Walk away and learn from this.
cassiebainesParticipantDecember 11, 2019 at 4:56 am #226419
You need to just ask him lots of questions. If he truly knows what he wants then definitely he will stick to you but if he isnt sure you can walk away.
rpishottiParticipantDecember 13, 2019 at 10:17 am #226558
He’s mean and disrespectful. His girlfriend probably doesn’t know what’s going on.
Unique1ParticipantDecember 30, 2019 at 3:06 am #227058
Yes I would ask him in a calm cool respectful way.
kamdynclarkParticipantJanuary 2, 2020 at 8:36 pm #227208
ask him, but ultimately, do what is best for you, even if that means leaving.
crankyelf4ParticipantJanuary 3, 2020 at 11:06 am #227240
I’d highly recommend leaving. This wasn’t a mistake or an accident, he’s been deliberately misleading you for months.
emzmarriottParticipantJanuary 19, 2020 at 11:46 am #228068
You should definitely confront him. It is not fair on you or the girlfriend
Ria1978ParticipantFebruary 13, 2020 at 1:01 am #229566
Forget about him and move on. Not worth it.
Pink30ParticipantFebruary 14, 2020 at 1:37 pm #229676
Confront him, then move on. He doesn’t deserve you ❤
mycraycrayfriendParticipantFebruary 16, 2020 at 4:38 pm #229720
2 months thats all? no one can really care for someone after only two months. sorry but you are job a side piece.
ChadParticipantFebruary 16, 2020 at 6:28 pm #229722
This guy sounds like a bit of a ‘loser’ in some ways (not telling you he has a girlfriend before sleeping with you, etc…) but, obviously you have some feelings for him ! Forgive yourself for not asking him yourself before sleeping with him if he has a girlfriend and, learn from the mistake and, move on but, take into consideration your feelings about the matter. If you feel strongly enough about him, see if he’ll give up the girlfriend for you before moving on and if not, definitely move on …
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