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maddywarnerParticipantApril 4, 2020 at 5:19 pm #232578
yes i personally think you should confront him and that is so messed up
tephrosParticipantApril 7, 2020 at 3:38 am #232606
If you’re really in love, a discussion with him is the only way that makes sense. If you find an arrangement that works for you that involves monogamy, then feel free to check if he’s holding up his end. Trust is overrated – NOBODY should be trusted but that doesn’t mean people should waste all their energy being distrustful either.
Honestly people, even experts, say it can’t work out, but I’ve seen it work out a minority of the time for years and years afterwards. About 44% of men cheat, and there’s a good chance you’ll be unlucky enough to fall for one of them. Some men cheat even when they love somebody – sex addiction is a real thing, but a dangerous thing. It’s like if you love an alcoholic do you just automatically leave them, or do you try to work something out and accept the risks of being with them because that’s who you love? Sorry to the cheater haters here, but love and life just isn’t that simple.
If you’re just infatuated, then just moving on makes the most sense.
deyff02ParticipantMay 1, 2020 at 9:16 pm #233264
Yes I would ask him in a calm cool respectful way.
JohncoeParticipantMay 4, 2020 at 8:15 am #233267
I think you should move on, its not going to be a good relationship as there is no trust for me I could not be with someone after finding out they were with someone else and lied to me about it you could say he didnt lie as you never asked but still he new full well what he was doing and he should of told you but he didnt so I would move on deffo big red flags there
goosinatorParticipantMay 5, 2020 at 9:15 pm #233382
Confront him if it will make you feel better and give you closure, but 2 months isn’t that long, so you could just as easily cut him off cold-turkey. Maybe send him a brief text, without emotion, letting him know you know about his gf and then block him.May 7, 2020 at 8:29 am #233447
If and only if the girl is officially his girlfriend, then you should leave him and move on. Tell him politely over text (recommended) that you don’t want to be with him anymore because of this reason. With that being said, you don’t want to be a victim of being cheated on, do you?May 8, 2020 at 8:58 pm #233565
Sorry I meant confront him face to face instead of texting
Cheddar44ParticipantMay 14, 2020 at 11:53 am #233799
Yes, 1000% you should confront him and show your standards by walking away
EverywhereIGoParticipantMay 23, 2020 at 9:57 pm #234278
if you were a virgin before having sex with him then you should follow him and ask him to marry you or stay with you.
LOL! What kind of advice is that? What does it matter if she was a virgin or not? That’s still somebody’s boyfriend she was messing with.
EverywhereIGoParticipantMay 23, 2020 at 9:58 pm #234279
You should confront him. Ask him why he didn’t tell you that he had a girlfriend. If he’s cheating on her, what makes you think he won’t cheat on you?
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