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Ffs14231ParticipantJanuary 23, 2017 at 2:20 pm #124136
So i met this girl online few months ago and she was very shy and she didnt wanna go out in first place and after we talked soooo much i fell in love with her personality and she looked so pretty on pictures.So after few months today we dated and i kinda didnt expect her to be so chubby but i still i really like her personality and im kinda connected to her but idk im not so attracted to her since she is little overweight.Like i love everything about her exept her looks she is losing alot tho we talked before she said she lost alot of weight but tho she is still kinda chubby idk like what should i do i cant break her heart we talked so long,should i go for it yolo she wil lose in time i dont know.
richiroParticipantJanuary 23, 2017 at 4:05 pm #124164
well if you find zero attraction .. yeah be honest with her.
but yo might regret it if she’s losing weight.
still.. thats the way it goes.
you will find and learn that in the end – the looks only go so far and only keep your interest so long before the personality and essence of th eperson is what makes you stay or go – not the looks.
fl95ParticipantJanuary 23, 2017 at 7:23 pm #124201
personality is really important but so is sexual attraction. Maybe carry on talking to her and see if she becomes more attractive to you as she loses the weight. But if you really aren’t attracted, you may end up doing something silly in the future with someone you find better looking. If you connect on a personal level that is so great so keep at it.
cheeksParticipantJanuary 24, 2017 at 11:29 am #124263
the initial attraction is what normally sparks a relationship, but its not to say its everything
GBhut1999ParticipantJanuary 26, 2017 at 9:56 pm #124712
Looks aren’t everything. I’m chubby myself, and have a hard time finding anyone who will look past that.
my angelParticipantJanuary 28, 2017 at 12:46 pm #124861
Definitely be honest with her, dont let her continue to think you are in to her if you truly aren’t.
DangoTangoParticipantJanuary 28, 2017 at 3:49 pm #124866
If your feelings changed, there’s only one thing left to do. You decide.
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