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I’m a 30 year old woman who has an established career and recently purchased my first home. I met a 30 year old guy through online dating. We really hit it off and things progressed quickly. I fell for him for sure. Then he informed me that he wasn’t looking for anything serious as he is living with his parents at the moment and was working a job that didn’t provide much income. He also said he wasn’t great with relationships. I was understanding and it kind of turned into a hook up thing for the last 5 months. About a month ago things changed and he got very quiet and wasn’t his usual self. Then a few weeks ago he told me he met someone and is in a relationship. After some online digging I discovered she is 23 and lives over an hour away from him. She too stil lives at home. He has texted me and said he doesn’t know what he is doing. He recently lost his job and reached out to me as well. I just don’t get why I wasn’t good enough? What is he thinking?March 20, 2018 at 4:22 pm #167943
I guess what hurts me the most is that we had such a strong bond. We would talk everyday. And now it’s just nothing hardly at all. I don’t get what I did wrong. I tried to be so supportive and nice to him.
AnonymousMarch 20, 2018 at 5:59 pm #167963
I think he maybe thought you were too good. You have just purchased your own home and are very independant. He might feel inferior living with his parents and with a lesser job. Maybe that’s why he found some other woman?
AnonymousMarch 20, 2018 at 6:02 pm #167964
I found myself in a similar situation to him… And that’s the feelings I got.March 21, 2018 at 8:40 am #167969
Possibly, but I hope that isn’t the case. And why still message me if he is with someone else? Makes me think he has some
Feelings towards me and is just confused maybe? I don’t know.
AnonymousMarch 22, 2018 at 8:54 am #168031
he does sound confused, i think he still cares/misses you, but just feels inferior.
GemologistParticipantMarch 22, 2018 at 5:57 pm #168219
He isn’t. The real question is whether you consider him worth the effort of waiting until he grows up.
jtb333ParticipantMarch 23, 2018 at 3:31 am #168225
He is confused on what he wants to do. It sounds like he genuinely likes you but may not be ready for a serious relationship that you could be providing him. Would sooner take someone younger with less responsibilities. In my opinionMarch 23, 2018 at 5:04 am #168231
Yea that could be true. It’s really too bad cause I really liked him and we always had so much fun together. Don’t know if it’s even worth bringing it up to him st this point…don’t want to make things worse or make it seem like I’m not respectful of his relationship I guess.
AnonymousMarch 23, 2018 at 10:25 am #168264
Yea, I agree with you, Most people ready for a serious relationship that you could be providing him
pdxgirl80ParticipantMarch 23, 2018 at 5:41 pm #168306
Maybe he was intimidated by you. I solidly believe If men are interested they’ll be back. Easier advice to give than followMarch 23, 2018 at 6:28 pm #168309
Yea I guess there really isn’t much else for me to do….just wait and see what happens 😕
OlegParticipantMarch 25, 2018 at 6:05 am #168340
do not worry everything will be fine
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