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newbie

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March 27, 2016 at 12:35 am #96561

Confused -is he just being friendly or interested in more?

I recently met this guy. We’re just friends but sometimes I wonder if he is actually interested in something more. I feel like there are signs but not sure if I’m just overanalyzing because I like him. These are some signs:
1. Continuously (day after day) sends me “good morning” and “good night” texts.
2. Texts and messages me A LOT.
3. Compliments me quite often.
4. I mentioned a song I really love in a message and a few minutes later he sends me a recording of him playing the song on his guitar. This happened twice.
5. Remembered my favorite type of chocolate and bought me some when he passed by the store.
7. During a stressful time, he surprised me with a pick-me-up snack consisting of my favorite foods.
8. Wants to hang out often.
9. Opens up to me about personal topics.
10. Notices little things -like “you were wearing a different scarf yesterday”.

But then again he did say was in need of a friend. Is he just being a really great friend or is he interested in more?

rustyhands

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March 27, 2016 at 11:36 pm #96577

Maybe he’s shy?

amp

Participant

March 28, 2016 at 12:15 am #96580

He sounds like he likes you. Though if a guy really wants to date you he will go out of his way to date you. Just see where things go and take it day by day. How long has this being going on for?

bumblebee35

Participant

March 28, 2016 at 11:44 am #96604

He likes you.

newbie

Participant

March 28, 2016 at 1:46 pm #96616

It’s been going on for about a month and a half, if not slightly longer.

cherryrose

Participant

March 28, 2016 at 4:08 pm #96630

He likes you for sure! Those are really good signs. I’d say give him a hint you like him. Maybe he’s waiting for a sign that you like him back.

I_AM_ALEX

Participant

March 29, 2016 at 7:29 am #96666

He likes you. A lot of guys (including myself) don’t always know how to come out and say it. How do you feel about him?

newbie

Participant

March 29, 2016 at 8:51 am #96618

rustyhands wrote:

Maybe he’s shy?

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Yeah he could be shy. He likes to have conversations a lot but is generally the quiet type.

newbie

Participant

March 29, 2016 at 12:36 pm #96697

Reply To: Confused -is he just being friendly or interested in more?

Is he already in a relationship with someone else?
If a man is the kind of guy a woman has strong feelings about, even though he has not dated her, he tends to be the kind of guy who can get plenty of other women.
sorry

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He is not in a relationship.