Confused with Crush

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Confused with Crush

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    xmetalgirl
    xmetalgirl
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    May 8, 2019 at 10:19 am #200080
    Confused with Crush

    So the guy I liked, I accidently smothered him (long story) but I gave space/I didnt talk to him for a month and he initiated and he said been “really busy” I thought maybe he is just stringing me along then? I mean like even if a guy is busy he will make time for you if he likes you and also because he wont text me first until it is like 3 weeks or ask to hang out anymore. Anyway so I thought I’ll just keep leaving him alone. So I havent texted him In 2 weeks after the last convo but now all he does is comment on almost all my IG pics, like them and even talk to me on my IG stories. I’m confused. Is he trying to talk to me more because he likes me back and trying to build rapport with me or wants to just be friends? am I being strung along? Does he just want me to give him an ego boost? (I used to compliment him a lot, ask him out too much which he woul decline, text him a lot) I’m not sure if I should try talking to him again? Cant tell if he likes me or doesnt like being ignored?

    • This topic was modified 2 months, 1 week ago by xmetalgirl xmetalgirl.
    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    May 8, 2019 at 3:09 pm #200118

    “So the guy I liked, I accidently smothered him (long story) but I gave space..”
    “I used to compliment him a lot, ask him out too much which he woul decline, text him a lot”
    “So I havent texted him In 2 weeks after the last convo but now all he does is comment on almost all my IG pics, like them ..”

    This guy is not interested in you and never has been.
    If he were he would have asked YOU out.
    He’s probably happy you’re no longer “smothering him”.
    The reason why he “likes” your pictures and comments is simply to maintain a platonic friendship.

    Generally speaking if you have to “figure out a guy” it usually means he’s not into you.

    As for whether you’re being strung along that is completely up to you.
    Based upon what you’ve stated you should be going out with other guys as you were never in a “relationship”.
    Always keep your options open until you are actually in an exclusive relationship.
    If you don’t want to be friends with the guy block him or unfriend him.

    jewels
    jewels
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    May 14, 2019 at 10:30 pm #200395

    I agree! Keep your options open!

    May 15, 2019 at 2:31 am #200397

    Yeah try seeing what things he’s into and see what everything is about