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Jd2426ParticipantSeptember 18, 2018 at 3:21 am #184501
So I met this girl on Tinder. Awesome girl we only talked for maybe 3 weeks. So the chemistry was just crazy. It felt like a fairytale for both of us. There was a very strong attraction between the two of us and there never really seemed to be a dull moment. I think it would have turned into something great. So with all that said everything was just great. The last two days we talked she seemed to get a bit cold. She said she was just really busy but as busy as we both are it never stopped us from communicating non stop. When this happened it caught me off guard and threw me off a bit. I started getting a bit needy and insecure when at first I had her on her toes at all times. Well I accused her of lying over something petty and told her maybe we just just break this off. She went off on me about how I showed my true colors and it was unattractive. I didn’t handle the situation well at all. So her feelings are now her and she has shut me out emotionally and wants months of space.
Jd2426ParticipantSeptember 18, 2018 at 3:26 am #184502
I took responsibility for the entire situation and she said she forgave me and that it meant a lot to her. She said she wanted a few months of space. I gave a week or so and tried to contact her again and she still wants to wait months. She views my social media stuff everyday and follows what I am doing on snap chat. I do not want to contact her anymore because I don’t want to mess up any chance that is still there. I do not need this girl I just really want her. Is there any way for this to be saved or should I just let it go and move on?
mbrod12ParticipantSeptember 19, 2018 at 8:27 pm #184778
Move on and let it go is probably the best IMO.
dashingscorpioParticipantSeptember 20, 2018 at 10:34 am #184836
Anyone you’ve only known for 3 weeks and they’re asking for “months” of space is considering other “options”.
When people meet on Tinder or other online dating sites/apps it’s important to remember you’re in a competition!
As long as a person maintains an “active profile” they’re telling the world they’re still looking for Mr. Right/Ms. Right.
It would be foolish of you to put your life (on hold) waiting on her to decide if or when she wants to date you again.
Go about your business and pursue other girls.
If she calls you and wants to go out then you can decide if you’re still interested.
- This reply was modified 5 months ago by dashingscorpio.
animainlovesParticipantNovember 26, 2018 at 10:39 am #189823
I agree with everyone else when they say move on. Truly, she is now playing games and she knows that she has you on the palm of her hands. Get busy with hobbies and activities, if it’s meant to be she’ll appear again and you both will somehow get together if not then no harm doen. By waiting for her you’re just delaying the meeting with someone who is actually better for you and destined for you. Go out, meet people, have fun and don’t worry about the future. Live in the moment, do you, work on self development. The right person will make their way to you.
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