Confussion and uncertanty (College)

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Confussion and uncertanty (College)

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    freshman176
    freshman176
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    March 12, 2019 at 3:05 am #196477
    Confussion and uncertanty (College)

    So for starters when it comes to relationships im kinda new to it. In higschool the only girls I dated were long distance or just in it to jump to 2nd and 3rd base before actually getting to know them too well. So being a freshmen in college I’m kinda scared to start a realationship with anyone due to my inexperience. I feel since Ive jumped around so much with what Ive experienced I dont know what Im doing. If anyone has basic advice It would be greatly appreciated. Also I have a more specific problem in another post.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 12, 2019 at 10:38 am #196511

    A lot of teenagers are in the same boat as you when they arrive at college.
    Stop feeling the need to have to KNOW everything about women/dating/sex.
    Accept the fact you’re going to make mistakes, get rejected, and eventually land on your feet.
    This time of your life is for (learning and exploring) as well as finding out what works for you!

    If you want something different YOU have to do something different.

    1.Making some (male friends) who seem to have no problem with girls is a good idea.
    You’d be amazed at how much you can learn from being around successful people in any endeavor.

    2. Attend social events, sporting events, dances/parties, join clubs or basically be socially active…etc
    Ideally early on you will have a male friend as a “wingman” to go to these things until you are confident enough to go alone.

    3. Become well known for something
    Women love to be with guys who step into the limelight whether you’re the leader of something, play in a band, actor/poet

    Mnkyd090
    Mnkyd090
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    March 13, 2019 at 3:16 am #196596

    If I were you, I would not go into a mindset of dating someone qhen approachig a girl. Think of it like trying to get to know her. This will take stress off your shoulders and present your genuine interest and your genuine self

    aray808311
    aray808311
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    June 17, 2019 at 8:20 am #202180

    do you feel like you really want/need a relationship right now in college?