Crush at first site Can’t stop thinking about her

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Crush at first site Can’t stop thinking about her

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    hummingbee
    hummingbee
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    August 5, 2019 at 11:40 pm #204881
    Crush at first site Can’t stop thinking about her

    So I went to the mall walked in a store and saw the most beautiful women. I couldn’t stop starring at her and she was holding eye contact with me. I got super nervous hearts racing so I stepped out and came back in to finish my purchase. Still couldn’t keep my eyes of her and I know she sees me looking at her. So being the introvert I am I didn’t say anything especially since my kid was with me.

    Two days late I have to return my purchase. The store is super packed and I see her again this time she’s cross the table from me, so beautiful, I peep the rainbow bracelet and try my hardest not to stare. When she finish speaking to her customer she looks up at me smiling and starts talking. I’m super nervous we hold eye contact and in the extremely packed store I see no one else. She compliments my hair I return about here’s and we immediately get into this conversation about college and dance she mentioned she was flexible, I mean! So I find out she just move here… see below

    hummingbee
    hummingbee
    Participant
    August 6, 2019 at 12:00 am #204882

    She’s asking about place to go dance I have no idea bc I’m not from this small town. She lives like 30 min. Out We started talking about travel but I can’t tell if she can hear me cause it’s so loud and I’m soft spoken. We get interrupted by the cashier and she waits and continued talking. I’m super nervous that I’m tapping my finger and work up the courage and give her my business card since I’m a travel agent she smiles really big and said dang girl this is what I needed.
    Now I’m thinking that was too forward and if she was just being nice. Or was I awkward and miss reading? She seemed interested. I’m a mom and I’m in a poly relationship I know that’s a lot. Is my expectation too high. I also don’t know if I was direct enough? Did I give her the message I was into her? Was the card enough or bad idea? I keep thinking about her and I’ve never felt this way about someone who I just met? Should I try to forget her or do I casually stop by if I’m in the mall again

    jdiorio
    jdiorio
    Participant
    August 6, 2019 at 12:25 am #204885

    I would go back to the mall for sure! What is the worst that can happen? Ask her if she wants to meet for coffee – something simple at first. My feelings is that she was attentive to you so I am thinking she wants to get to know you better! GO FOR IT!!

    hummingbee
    hummingbee
    Participant
    August 6, 2019 at 8:33 am #204884

    Btw it’s been two days