Crush on guy… stuck…

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Crush on guy… stuck…

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    LoneBoyOnTheCliff
    LoneBoyOnTheCliff
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    September 7, 2019 at 4:55 am #206681
    Crush on guy… stuck…

    Hello, I have this crush on a guy in my uni year for months now. I’ve decided to do something about it. Asked his best friend for advice since I wasn’t sure he is into guys. She said he probably is, but she doesn’t know for sure either. Found a topic to talk about and started messaging him. We messaged for about 2 weeks (frequency increased over time). During last week I started flirting with him more and noticed he was flirting back over texts(a little more discreet than me but still flirting back). As I made my intentions clear I am into him (but not saying it straightforwardly), I observed the pace didn’t change at all. I was still the one always initiating, he was responding to my texts, being flirtatious from time to time, but he never showed interest outside of that. Never wrote first, never initiated, heck didnt even follow back on IG. I’ve stopped writting to him. Its been a week now. He didnt show any reaction/initiate anything. What should I do?

    LoneBoyOnTheCliff
    LoneBoyOnTheCliff
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    September 7, 2019 at 5:01 am #206682

    P.S.: About what i know about the guy from his best friend. He didn’t have a girlfriend for years (like 4) and he didn’t have any intimate privacy with anyone before. Also she told me he is shy. He keeps his answers short and roasts me ;(

    Anna_22
    Anna_22
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    September 10, 2019 at 6:07 am #206794

    Maybe he’s not entirely sure about moving into a relationship with another man, as you said he has had gf’s previously. It’s not uncommon for men to keep vulnerable or sensitive things at a distance. Either that, or it seems he’s not interested in making it more than a casual thing.