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I am 17, in the 11th grade and have never had a girlfriend. I started online school back in the 9th grade because normal school was moving too slow for me. I was never a popular guy, but a lot of people knew me. I guess you could call me a popular lame? I don’t know haha. Anyway, picture me as the guy who trembles when talking to girls. It is not too bad, it’s controllable just still annoying. I do well in school, I have a job and a vehicle, so I am doing fairly good for my age, but I have no idea what to say or do when it comes to conversating with women. I know there is no handbook, or planned out lines, but I have no idea where to start. Here is a list of things I need help with.January 14, 2015 at 3:52 pm #70621
1. How / what do I start a conversation with? “Hi, how are” seems kinda over used and just not a good conversation to me.
2. What do I do when a girl gives me her number? In the 8th grade a girl had written me a not with her phone number, and I didn’t know what to do. I would text her “hey, how are you”, she would reply “good, you?” I would say “good”, and that would be the end of it.
3. How / when should I start a texting conversation? When that girl had given me her number I never knew if I should text her or not.
4. How do I ask a girl out? I am not the guy that is going to ask her out after a 5 minute conversation, but I don’t know what is “normal” to do.
5. What do I do if she says “yes”? “No”?
6. Where do I go to find girls? Keep in mind I don’t go to a public school as I do online school.
7. What is flirting / how do I flirt, and what should I stay away from when flirting?
Any additional advice would be great. I am sure I am missing a few things.
January 15, 2015 at 8:47 am #70622
- This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by 19Zach97. Reason: adding number 6 and 7
Also, where should I go to find a girl? I don’t go to the high school (again, I do online school), and I don’t want to facebook stalk people and show up at their work place.
AnonymousJanuary 15, 2015 at 9:47 am #70680
Bars, Clubs 🙂
AnonymousJanuary 15, 2015 at 9:48 am #70682
try a free dating website first
AnonymousJanuary 15, 2015 at 9:50 am #70684
like lucy said bars and clubs are a good start tooJanuary 15, 2015 at 11:59 am #70701
I don’t think I can go to bars and clubs at 17. Oh well, worth a shot I guess lol.
AnonymousJanuary 15, 2015 at 1:38 pm #70719
you could always try to class also. help you with understanding women better, but that will come with age anyway
AnonymousJanuary 16, 2015 at 9:14 am #70723
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LWFB93ParticipantJanuary 17, 2015 at 1:22 pm #71198
Best advice I was ever given was to ask open-ended questions when talking to a girl you are interested in. Try and avoid questions that she can simply answer “yes” or “no” with.
Example: “Are you going to University of Whatever next year?” can be answered yes/no. Thus, limits her responses. “So what are your plans next year after graduation?”…this gives her room to talk about what she wants to do. That’s another thing: ask her questions. Don’t talk about yourself.
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AnonymousJanuary 19, 2015 at 10:16 am #71235
I’ve been having a very similar problem for a long time. What people seem to say is that you need to be confident, so work up enough confidence to talk to girls. I know – it’s scary…
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