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littlekitty91ParticipantOctober 21, 2019 at 1:27 pm #223790
I met this guy 2 weeks ago online and he offered to take me out on a date so I accepted and I offered to pay my half and he wouldn’t let me pay my half which is fine. So on our date he told me that he thinks I am the one and that he thinks I am extremely beautiful. He was being so nice to me. I stayed at his house and his Mum was there so I met her. We slept together that night and he kept saying I’m the one and all that kind of stuff. I don’t normally sleep with a guy that quick but it felt right.
So I went home Saturday Afternoon and he text me saying that he’s falling in love with me….then Saturday night he went quiet on me and stopped
talking to me as much as he did…. so I called him out on why he wasn’t talking to me and he said that he felt like I was rushing him… but it wasn’t me??
I got caught up in all the nice things he was saying and was trying to be nice back. I’m so confused and it’s a complete 360 to be honest. I’m so confused and don’t know what to do?
ringtail422ParticipantOctober 21, 2019 at 4:55 pm #223800
Seems weird that he said you were rushing him, I would clarify with him and say we can go at his pace if he wants
Bhersh01ParticipantOctober 25, 2019 at 2:55 pm #224036
Sadly, guys will do that. Now there are a few that do dall in love with you immediately and they mean it. But they are also gentlemen enough to wait for you. It is important in the beginning to set boundaries and let him show you how much he wants you.
MaltheParticipantNovember 7, 2019 at 5:08 pm #224840
Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable. …and Be confident. …and dont be shy…..
AnonymousInactiveNovember 8, 2019 at 3:34 pm #224918
my advice is that go at restaurant first give him a menu book to order then talk with him confidently and don’t be nervous then at paying time you have to pay bill ..
DagaParticipantNovember 10, 2019 at 12:40 pm #224940
My advice is everyone has had ups and downs in dates, right? The most important thing is to value yourself and your values
MaltheParticipantNovember 12, 2019 at 8:25 am #224931
Always before dating make a mind that you will try to understand the front guy clearly sometimes people are very easy to understand. Be confident in talking and do not be shy of anything feel relax and comfortable and enjoy the moment
JesperTParticipantDecember 30, 2019 at 8:22 am #227066
Saying “I love you” and “you are the one” that quickly sounds extremely fake. He probably just thinks that would impress you.
Golfer0808ParticipantDecember 31, 2019 at 9:35 am #227087
Sounds like he was saying all those nice thing’s to get what he wanted… Then once he got it, that’s when things changed. I’d move on he sounds like a manipulator.
daveferr8544ParticipantDecember 31, 2019 at 10:22 pm #227091
In my opinion I think that this guy said what he could to get you to comeback to his place. He’s a manipulator and that’s not fair to you. Find one who wants what you want.
frank34ParticipantJanuary 2, 2020 at 4:01 am #227097
haha lol, interesting story.
frank34ParticipantJanuary 2, 2020 at 8:26 am #227098
be aware he is not the right person for you.
Chas5566ParticipantJanuary 23, 2020 at 2:49 pm #228301
Sorry but at best he’s most likely too immature to know the difference between being in love and simply horny. At best. More likely you got played. Many many men enjoy the hunt, and once they’ve “captured their prey, they move on to the next. Not proud to be a guy.
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