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    frankt
    frankt
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    March 17, 2019 at 8:09 pm #196945
    Gay Dating Question

    SARASOTA, FLORIDA
    I met a man at a bar and he asked me out on a date. He actually used the word “date” when he asked me out.
    We went on a dinner date, and then had 2 sex dates (total of 3 dates).

    This was done via text….
    I asked him if he wanted to hang out any evening the upcoming week. We both are free in the evenings. His response was “i will have to let you know” which i did not reply to. The next day he sent another message indicating that he is not good at cuddling, but is good at sex. I did not reply to that either.

    He currently lives with his “ex”, and has been charged with his 3rd DUI.

    I ghosted and stopped contact.

    What are you thoughts ?

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    SoCalDreamer
    SoCalDreamer
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    April 8, 2019 at 5:19 pm #198360

    Hello frankt,
    I am recently out and don’t have experience dating, but, my gut feeling is that you did the right thing by stopping contact. Someone who lives with his “ex” and has had a 3rd DUI doesn’t sound like a guy worth keeping around. And personally, “not good at cuddling” would be a deal-breaker for me! I hope this is helpful and I wish you the best in your dating journey. Peace, David (“SoCalDreamer”)

    frankt
    frankt
    Participant
    May 27, 2019 at 6:05 pm #201136

    Hi SoCalDreamer,

    He has recently received another DUI. That makes number 4.
    The message he sent about “not good at cuddling, but i good at sex”….i took that to mean he looked at me as a FB, and not BF material.

    WalterBurnett
    WalterBurnett
    Participant
    June 28, 2019 at 12:19 am #203019

    You did the right thing by not messaging him again.

    TheSugarVenom
    TheSugarVenom
    Participant
    October 4, 2019 at 11:36 am #222956

    My thoughts are that you did the right thing by discontinuing your conversation with him. He seems like he’s got a lot of issues to sort through and his intentions are not genuine.

    LostNDazed
    LostNDazed
    Participant
    October 9, 2019 at 11:26 am #223133

    I agree, you handled it perfectly and you deserve much better than what he can offer. A lot of people just want one thing but that doesnt mean you have to oblige. Find someone that makes you happy and is there for you when you need something other than intercourse.

    MissJ1234
    MissJ1234
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    October 22, 2019 at 2:08 am #223804

    Thats totally fine