Do i have a shot?

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Do i have a shot?

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    Lonelyheart
    Lonelyheart
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    February 6, 2018 at 12:23 am #164573
    Do i have a shot?

    Im really into this girl, i met a couple months ago. She is a taurus woman and i am a pisces. We have been hanging out 3 to 4 times a week and having a great time. She messages me to come visit her at her work all the time (bartender). I normally do. I really feel a connection, but im not sure if she is interested. She makes it seem like shes not that hot, but she is. She also hugs me every time we part, but she doesnt flirt with me much.She is gorgeous and gets hit on all of the day long. Also flirts with other girls when im with her sometimes. She just got out of a relationship about a month ago. Help! Could she like me? Is it too soon to ask her out? I don’t want to be in the friend zone!

    youngbof
    youngbof
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    March 4, 2020 at 5:53 pm #230870

    Hi there,

    Overall I would say that given she spends a lot of time with you and talking to you, these seem to be positive encounters —she does enjoy being around you. In terms of flirting; talking and spending time alone together are good signs. But you might want to try to look for other signs – like eye contact, smiling, touching, teasing, open body language. Is she attentive and focused when you are around her/talking with her?
    If you’re finding as though you’re getting mixed signals from her, maybe try to be more flirty with her and see how she responds? If you find she reacts in a positive way, chances are she likes the attention you’re giving her and is interested in you too. Give it a go!!

    Wishing you well!!