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[bgreekParticipant]

December 20, 2015 at 7:36 pm #90348

Do You Have Any

I’ve chatted with some f/co-workers
And one of the questions i get asked
Is do i have any plans?

Which brings me to the questions
Are they interested in hanging out with me?
And what’s the best way to for a guy to answer this question
I get asked this question

[featherwinkParticipant]

December 21, 2015 at 9:01 am #90349

I think the question about your plans is a way of getting you to talk about your hopes and dreams for the future, which reveal a lot about you. And if you have a plan for making your dreams become reality, that also says a lot about you. I think a lot of women (people, really) are attracted to those who have dreams and go after them.

Not sure how being questioned of your plans brings you to ‘are they interested in hanging out with me?’…unless every question you’re asked brings you to that question, which is entirely possible. I think they won’t know if they want to hang out with you until they get to know you, which is why they’re asking about your plans and I’m sure other things…

The best way to answer the question and all questions is honestly. And while this is just my opinion, if you don’t have any plans, it would be a good thing to spend some time thinking of what it is you want out of life and what you’d most like to do with your life then share it with those who ask:)…