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Me and this guy started texting around December. He told me he liked me. I told him he is not my type really and he said we hold a good conversations and have fun together and im his type. Also I said that we shudnt go out because we work together. So we starting hanging out and texting lots, and we became dating. It lasted for about 1 month, before he broke it off. He said we dont hold a conversation and im too loud for him. So we left it. So we became friends with benefits after that and that lasted a month and half. Then he went all hot and cold on me. One day he was fine with me and we had a good laugh and some days he would just ignore me and be mean, this is all at work, as we dont see each other out work much. My co workers who are around said that he still likes me and always watches me work and listens to my conversation with them. Then he started dating his ex girlfriend who only broke up with him cause she left the country. CONTApril 16, 2015 at 4:25 am #77336
But she came back but only for a short time. So after a while we didnt really talk only at work, and then we drank together with a couple of other mates. That night my mates left and he stayed, dont know why. We talked to 5 am and then had sex. So Im confused whats going on. Does he still want me? Is his girlfriend a rebound, because we had sex while they are still together. But he never texted me the next day or days later. I saw him at work a few days later and we were just normal. We met in town and i was drunk and all over him and stuff and he seemed to go with it.But after that im still confused on whats up. Should I tell him I still like him or just leave it? I feel like he is giving me mixed signals. He was really into me at the beginning of all this way more than I was.
NodameParticipantApril 16, 2015 at 5:22 pm #77423
He’s playing games with you. Don’t let him play with your emotions. Try and date other people. Good luck, I hope it works out for you
Mkc1114ParticipantApril 16, 2015 at 9:25 pm #77439
Yeah, it sounds like he is playing games. Cut him off completely! Trust me. It’s hard but it will drive him crazy and it will also help you move on! Good luck!April 17, 2015 at 8:27 am #77437
Yea I know. Is it bad that I will just let him. i just want to get over him, Tried dating others didnt work. I work with the guy so I see him all the time, What can and should I do about it?
I dont want leave my work, as I love it there and they are flexible with me. I think if i didnt see him all the time it would be easier to get over him.
grande123ParticipantApril 19, 2015 at 5:53 pm #77549
straight up ask him what’s going on. clear the air. then move on with the relationship or move on without him!
SorshaParticipantMay 1, 2015 at 12:39 am #78232
He’s a real player. Don’t waste more time with him.
cluelessINdatingParticipantMay 1, 2015 at 10:37 am #78254
Sounds like he’s playing you. He probably gets a kick out of the fact that you are so into him and you cant have him. Maybe he acts nice to you from time to time so that you keep chasing him. my friend was a little bit of a player when he was younger and he said “its like giving some candy to kids. you got to give them candy so they keep coming back but you cant give them too much”. Some guys are like that. you probably think about him a lot when you are not doing anything so my advice is move on and start dating or keep yourself very busy. Give yourself more responsibilities. Do more at work. join a club or something.
curiouscutieParticipantMay 2, 2015 at 1:13 am #78329
You don’t need him
jverdeParticipantMay 7, 2015 at 10:40 am #78584
I think you’ve given him far too much of you without asking for anything in return. I think that’s why he feels like he can string you around, because he knows you’ll let him. You get what you demand. Leave him alone. He is wishy-washy and you can do so much better! You made yourself too available and he fed off of that.
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