Does she want me?

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Does she want me?

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    twithers
    twithers
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    February 26, 2020 at 9:26 pm #230546
    Does she want me?

    Almost everyday a female coworker and I have breakfast together at work, eat lunch together and, usually, we take an afternoon break together to go for a walk. We also leave work together and talk on the way to our cars. Sometimes each of these interactions are at her urging. Sometimes they are at mine. Even if we wind up going to lunch in a group, she and I will end up walking side by side, talking together by ourselves.

    A few days ago, we were out at one such group lunch and split off to browse through a novelty store together. We laughed and joked around before heading back to the office. Once there, she had one of those fortune cookies left over from lunch. She opened it to read the fortune inside. Straight away she handed it to me saying “Here is some good advice for you.” The fortune said “Don’t fear to cross the line”. Was she giving me a hint that wants me to ask her out? I’m terrible at reading women, so any advice would be appreciated.

    • This topic was modified 1 month ago by twithers twithers.
    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    February 27, 2020 at 5:43 pm #230611

    “Was she giving me a hint that wants me to ask her out?”
    Forget about fortune cookies and your fear of rejection.

    Do YOU want to take her out on date?

    Up until now all you’ve done is “hang out” with a “co-worker”.
    It doesn’t sound like you have engaged in any {flirtatious banter} or playful incidental touching.
    One would think if you’ve been having breakfast and lunch together {almost everyday} there would be personal discussions.
    You didn’t mention whether or not your conversations include weekend plans, outside work interests, and activities.

    If you’re romantically interested in her don’t expect her to make the first move.
    Simply say; “I’ve been thinking a lot about your fortune cookie from the other day for some reason.”
    “Would you be interested in getting together this weekend to….(have dinner, see a movie, play, for cocktails, dancing or whatever)? Hopefully during all of your talks you’ve learned something about what she enjoys doing.

    You’ve got nothing lose.
    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!

    Kim_1989
    Kim_1989
    Participant
    February 29, 2020 at 2:29 pm #230650

    I believe that this is very hard to tell… Why don’t you find out by asking her out?

    weracouple
    weracouple
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    March 2, 2020 at 10:59 am #230693

    coming from a female here…it does sound like she has at least some interest so why not take a chance.

    Whythough
    Whythough
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    March 2, 2020 at 12:42 pm #230694

    I think it’s sounds like she’s giving you hints. If you’re interested, you should give it a try.

    thenoto2020
    thenoto2020
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    March 3, 2020 at 6:23 am #230718

    She likes you man go for it.

    Xedrek99
    Xedrek99
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    March 4, 2020 at 2:56 pm #230852

    Women are hard to read sometimes through just words. Did she give any eye contact that pushed on the idea that she wanted to have a relationship? Body language is also a very strong trait to watch for with Women too. If she is comfortable enough to hangout, go out to eat all the time and even hint in such a way, I say put the cards on the table IF you are wanting that step too. Ask yourself if that is what you want with too before making that step. Once it is done, it is rough/ awkward to still be friends.

    ksv333
    ksv333
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    March 4, 2020 at 9:34 pm #230872

    Sounds like a cute hint to me, I can’t imagine myself doing that without an underlying meaning.

    Looloo12
    Looloo12
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    March 5, 2020 at 12:47 am #230877

    She definitely seems she enjoys your company at least so that’s good!! She’s either already interested or will get there eventually. I’d say take your shot!

    theplug
    theplug
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    March 5, 2020 at 1:46 am #230883
    Reply To: Does she want me?

    If uncomfortable to ask on the spot, maybe ask for their number or set up a date, and if you really wanna play it safe add the words as a friend, then after the date maybe. I really had a good time with you, then try reading what she has to same back. The slower you go into it the less chance of backfire but sounds like she has decent amount of attraction to you

    datingstudent
    datingstudent
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    March 5, 2020 at 5:19 am #230890
    Reply To: Does she want me?

    You don’t sound that bad at reading women to me, you know that those moments spending time together are somewhat on purpose and important (enough to bring it up here).

    I can sense the pressure of the situation being coworkers and flirty it has to be weird. So if I were you I would try making it natural for the two of you to spend more time together, you could go out with her and other coworkers (you know you’ll end up talking to her). Try to find out if you have things in common and once you have something you can do with her, ask her.

    To make myself clear it should feel like you enjoy each other’s company and you want to spend more time together.

    Pigeon
    Pigeon
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    March 5, 2020 at 4:58 pm #230958
    Reply To: Does she want me?

    She’s definitely into you. If she wasn’t she would be more independent. It is a tricky line to cross though, seeing as you do work together.

    It could get really weird if something goes wrong after a few months and you still have to see each other.

    I’d take it slow and just hangout as friends a few times before even thinking about “dates”

    anneyyy
    anneyyy
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    March 12, 2020 at 12:59 am #231401
    Reply To: Does she want me?

    I believe it is all in the delivery. How did she say that? The words by themselves are very telling, she likes you and wants you to make a move. Did she say it with a serious tone? If it were me I would go for it. I’m a 22 year old F and if a guy said this to me I would probably start feeling things out. Maybe a casual touch to the arm or leg during a laughable moment.

    123doreme
    123doreme
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    March 12, 2020 at 2:38 pm #231429
    Reply To: Does she want me?

    She knows deep down there is a connection, and she’s afraid to admit it. She is indirectly hinting for you to make the move, so YES, she wants you! I’m only speaking from experience. I became best friends with a male coworker, who i did not find attractive at all. We truly enjoyed each others company, strictly platonic and no feelings. We’ve now been dating for five years. In hindsight, deep down I knew I really cared for him and wanted to be with him. Take a chance and make the first move!

    DenverGuy
    DenverGuy
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    March 14, 2020 at 9:35 am #231515
    Reply To: Does she want me?

    Cross that line!

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