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thaithaiParticipantJune 11, 2018 at 5:55 pm #176745
So the other day I dated this girl, we had a beer and shortly after we went to her hotel and I stayed the night. (Yes, we slept together)
I had to leave early the day after, and she was still asleep, so I just left.
I texted her and thanked her for last night, and then she replied basically saying the same. Then she double texted me and said she hoped my day wasn’t too bad even with just a little sleep. I responded, and hoped her day was fine. Then se wrote “Next time you’ll have to stay!”, and then I answered “Text me when you’re in town again” (She’s from another city). Then she answered “I will :*”
We haven’t talked since, but she followed me on instagram and liked my recent post, as well as an old picture.
Can I relax? Is this a good sign she liked me and will text me? Also; is it weird if I like all of her new instagram posts (she’s very active and posts 3 pics a day)?
dashingscorpioParticipantJune 16, 2018 at 1:51 pm #177221
Relax! And by that I mean go on with living your life. Don’t get hung up on her.
Hooking up with someone from out of town rarely turns into anything “special”.
Just enjoy it for what it was. If she comes back to town or (you) go to her town maybe you will hookup again.
Ultimately you don’t to try to force anything. She may already be in a relationship for all you know.
Secondly texting and talking are two different things.
We text people we don’t want to talk to.
These days people give each other too much credit for a line or two of text.
Having a conversation allows you hear their tonality, gage their enthusiasm, and so on.
Have you ever texted someone and used “lol” but you really weren’t laughing out loud?
I would also stop “liking” everything she posts on Instagram.
Not only may it make her feel you’ might be “clingy” but her other friends may notice or suspect something is going on.
Right now it’s only a one night stand.
wolf1992ParticipantOctober 20, 2018 at 5:24 pm #187613
I’m with dashingscorpio, lay off the like button. Cap it at one like every other day or so. It sure sounds to me like she’s interested, though impossible to tell if she just wants more sex or a relationship so only time will tell that one.
richiroParticipantOctober 22, 2018 at 2:54 pm #187713
she’s following you so that’s good.
leave a little sign you’re following her once in a while too. Best rule of thumb is to mimick what they do, but JUST a bit less than they do.
I would also do the occasional “thinking of you” type direct text to her if you have her number. See how quickly she replies (this is your best “interest-meter”). If she’s pretty responsive than you can start to flirt a bit or help her remember the great time you had and get her thinking about it again – thus thinking about you again.
females are all about the imagination and the visualizations in their mind – so make sure yoou’re not letting her stop visualizing and imagining things about you.
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