Embarrassed to ask

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Embarrassed to ask

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    BlunderBuss
    BlunderBuss
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    October 9, 2019 at 11:13 am #223131
    Embarrassed to ask

    I met a girl online and we’ve gone out once. But her name was different on the dating site than in Snapchat and her first message on Snapchat was to tell me how the Snapchat name is pronounced. I don’t know if the SC name is a nickname or something but at this point we’ve been out once and we talk a lot, sometimes about kinda personal stuff, and I’d be embarrassed to ask what she really goes by at this point. Is it okay to ask on our next date, or should I just wait until I hear her say it in some context, or is there another option? Thanks

    LostNDazed
    LostNDazed
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    October 9, 2019 at 11:23 am #223132

    Never be embarassed to get to know somebody better. If it’s obvious they want to keep things private, you have to respect that. Just be kind and bring it up in a relaxed comversation. If she gets uncomfortable tell her something about yourself that most people don’t know, that way she can relate with you in a way. Never pressure a person to do something they don’t want to do but don’t get embarassed because someone in all likelihood they’re just as embassed. Or have fun with it and call her by her Snapchat name until she tells you her real name or it becomes you two’s little nickname game.