Event with my ex

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Event with my ex

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    Jenarmen
    Jenarmen
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    December 4, 2018 at 12:35 pm #190479
    Event with my ex

    I broke the no contact rule with my ex by begging him to which of course he said no and in an week I was invited to a party to my former work place (he still works there).Should i go to this event knowing he will be there especially after i made a fool out of myself by begging him to get back together?
    I don’t want him to think I am going there only to see him and that this is a way of stalking him or making him take me back but also I want to enjoy seeing my old colleagues with which I stayed in contact after I left my workplace.

    kayak2133
    kayak2133
    Participant
    December 6, 2018 at 5:18 pm #190646

    I would not.

    LordRAR
    LordRAR
    Participant
    December 6, 2018 at 6:07 pm #190650

    Honestly, I would not attend. However, if you do attend, make sure you do everything in your power to present yourself as being there in no relation to him. In other words, have a fun time with friends but not make contact with him, be around him, or even allow yourself to be near him.

    Lucky_Fox
    Lucky_Fox
    Participant
    December 8, 2018 at 4:24 pm #190743

    You have to go and enjoed

    Fuark
    Fuark
    Participant
    December 18, 2018 at 8:49 am #191236

    Is the only reason to go there because ur ex is there? Then I would say no. If you just wanna have fun then go for it.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    December 19, 2018 at 9:53 pm #191439

    I noticed you saved this statement for last.
    “I want to enjoy seeing my old colleagues with which I stayed in contact after I left my workplace.”

    Truth is you can see your colleagues at happy hour or meet up together at other times.
    You should skip the party and keep your dignity in tact.

    “I broke the no contact rule with my ex by begging him to which of course he said no…”

    In order for your (ex) to have been “the one” he would have had to see (you) as being “the one”.
    At the very least a “soulmate” is someone who actually wants to be with you!

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    December2018
    December2018
    Participant
    December 20, 2018 at 3:04 pm #191509

    I would not go