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[cchance11]

September 2, 2017 at 5:48 pm #148041

Ex Gf of 3 years left, then contacted me?

We were together 3 years. She broke up with me because I took her for granted and got complacent in the last half year. I was selfish. I made the mistake of thinking she would always be there. Sometimes I talked condensending to her and just chose what I wanted to do over her suggestions and she had had enough.

I begged and pleaded but then went hardcore No contact. A month later..

She texted me a week ago “Hey. I wanted to apologize to you and any ill feelings you might have towards me. I should have given you more of a chance to talk and I’m sorry. I hope you have a good senior year and you make the best of It”
I responded a day later “Hey, thanks for reaching out. There are no ill feelings because I know I did some hurtful things too. I need to apologize as well because I know I was not the best partner and I now recognize where I failed. I did not mean to hurt you in the ways that I did. Hope everything is going good.”

Was this a good response if I want to rekindle?

[Patman]

September 2, 2017 at 7:06 pm #148043

That’s a great response, you should keep it going and ask her how she’s been and what’s happened since you last spoke, tell her you missed talking to her.

[druw33]

September 2, 2017 at 9:39 pm #148049

it appears she is checking on your wellbeing. I wouldn’t think to much into it, I have an ex that will unblock me to check on me, get my reply and block me again smh…