Failure

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Failure

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    Geninifeed
    Geninifeed
    Participant
    November 15, 2019 at 9:30 pm #225181
    Failure

    If someone (during a bad break up) said to you, “When I look at you I see all of my failures.” how would you take that? Just looking for opinions because it is still bothering me. For context, we were engaged and together for 14 years. Thank you!

    toriabulous
    toriabulous
    Participant
    November 18, 2019 at 8:15 am #225210

    In my opinion, the person told you he/she never and never will see success or happiness in being with you past, present or future. That comment is one of the lowest as person can tell another. It should be your answer too, when thinking about furthering anything with this person. Set Them Free, Bow Out Gracefully. Say A Prayer (on the departure of you and them and on behalf of their future steps without you in them). That is not a statement you tell someone and expect an apology of any kind to come back and get a “redo” from.

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Inactive
    November 18, 2019 at 3:51 pm #225278

    Agree with him

    lucy2424
    lucy2424
    Participant
    November 19, 2019 at 8:41 pm #225391

    It’s cruel and was clearly said to hurt you. He/she is not worth your time or love.

    Brrrrandon
    Brrrrandon
    Participant
    November 20, 2019 at 9:38 pm #225490

    Do not blame yourself

    mford24
    mford24
    Participant
    November 21, 2019 at 2:04 pm #225559

    who cares about insults its not your fault

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    November 22, 2019 at 4:38 pm #225666

    I would take that comment with a grain of salt.
    Oftentimes people give a “parting shot” to their ex as they head out of their life.
    It’s a waste of your time and energy trying to figure out an (ex).
    Your future lies ahead of you and not behind you!
    Let it go and move on.

    Best wishes!