Fakes and liars

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Fakes and liars

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    FriendlyTexan
    FriendlyTexan
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    September 21, 2018 at 11:57 am #184963
    Fakes and liars

    I have several dating profiles out there, I look over you women dating profiles, send messages saying Hello, How are you? and not one woman has ever, ever replied back. You women say your not judgmental, but I have actual proof you are.

    If a guy on a dating site sends you message and all you can do look over his profile and don’t bother replying back, Shows you are judgmental.

    I read you women profiles, if you put in there you like eating out, go traveling,, change that to I just want a man for his money.

    Your political affiliation, don’t put it your a Conservative. Majority of your women say your a conservative but have same views and values as those that call themselves liberals.

    • This topic was modified 2 months, 3 weeks ago by FriendlyTexan FriendlyTexan.
    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    September 21, 2018 at 4:07 pm #185031

    As a man I’m sure you don’t send messages to EVERY woman’s dating profile on the site.
    By your logic that means you’re being judgmental. There are two forms of rejection. (Direct and Indirect)

    Generally speaking us men have to contend with “direct rejection” because we usually are the one’s approaching women.
    However when we choose NOT to approach specific women we are essentially “indirectly rejecting” them.
    Indirect rejection can hurt just as much as direct rejection if someone is interested in you but you ignore their existence.
    Both men and women experience this online.

    Whether one is a woman or man everyone is entitled to have their own “preferences”.

    Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers. and spouse.
    Each of us has our own mate selection/screening process and “must haves list”.
    Each of us has boundaries and “deal breakers”.

    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: NEXT!
    This is especially true when one is using online dating sites and apps.
    Best wishes!

    jenygump11
    jenygump11
    Participant
    September 21, 2018 at 6:56 pm #185044

    It seems you need to filter through these women as well. There are a few gems there if that is where you’re actively seeking a potential partner. It seems you’ve lost hope. If that is the case, then stop using these dating apps.

    pachzevel
    pachzevel
    Participant
    September 25, 2018 at 11:37 pm #185369

    The reason I often don’t reply is not because I look over profiles and decide they’re not worth my time (and I use tinder so I can’t actually get a message from such a person); but rather because we are spammed on dating websites to a magnitude you do not understand. It is very difficult to answer everyone!