Feel unsafe with a virgin

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Feel unsafe with a virgin

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    Ivywave
    Ivywave
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    March 9, 2018 at 4:39 am #167083
    Feel unsafe with a virgin

    I m dating a male , we both in 30s but I just know he is still a virgin, I v had a previous relationship who was virgin too, my ex was addicted to sex, all he knew and wanted was so much sex all the time, and it exhausted me…..
    I m scared that I met a virgin again.
    will a man be able to direct his sex energy to a right direction?
    I hear usually a man need to be able to understand sex after he dated a lot women, so the first woman for him usually ended up just a teacher , will not last long will not able to make a successful relationship.

    Is that so?
    r there any examples for a virgin to make successful relationship nowadays?
    I know in old times our grand parents r able.

    richiro
    richiro
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    March 9, 2018 at 4:05 pm #167151

    first of all.. “virgIn” and “sex addict” have nothing to do with each other. so you need to take it one at a time.

    1. will a man be able to direct his sexual energy in the right direction? every man is differnt. part of your job is to figure that out before byou’re in the situation. does he seem obssessed with sex? is he “looking forward” too much to the sex specifically?

    2. men and their first sexual partner. Yes it is true men are pretty clueless about sex right off the bat and will need some help and may not know they’re way around.. that is a fact with ANY virgin (not just males)

    3. examples of virgin men successful in relationships? yes.. plenty. but that does not matter because those examples are NOT about the man you’re talkinga bout. th only question improtant is .. is the MAN you are talking about relaitonship material or ready. that’s your job to find out and figure out.

    Ivywave
    Ivywave
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    March 9, 2018 at 9:15 pm #167163

    1.. does he seem obssessed with sex? is he “looking forward” too much to the sex specifically

    3. th only question improtant is .. is the MAN you are talking about relaitonship material or ready. that’s your job to find out and figure out..quote]

    Thank u very much,
    from your words,,i feel what I need to know is, he is ready for LOVE or not?
    he is still obsessed with sex or he is growing forward into LOVE…..

    If I need to know about these, then I feel it applies to all the men/women, doesn’t matter he is a virgin or not virgin. ?

    Rob Black
    Rob Black
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    March 12, 2018 at 6:42 pm #167244

    I wouldn’t worry. If it doesn’t work out then move on. After he’s slept with you once he’ll get the hang of it – he might be amazing…