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    February 25, 2016 at 10:15 pm #94468

    I am so hurt. After 5 months of dating this guy I found out he is married. He said the only reason he told me is because he wants to be with me and he doesn’t want me to leave him. I was very hurt but I still wanted to be with this man. I felt evil, knowing he has a wife. he says they are not together, and haven’t been together for years, he only sees her to see the kids. He recently told me he is falling in love with me. This man treats me so good, he always takes me out and comforts me emotionally. He makes me feel so secure. I am falling deep in this relationship and I don’t know what to do, I’ll never felt this way about a guy and as much as I am being in denial I think I love him. I always promised myself that I would neverrrr date a married men because I have morals and it could of been me in that woman’s position. So I have been reading articles online about dating a married man and most of it says to leave a married guy, so I am considering leaving him. But I can tell he loves

    February 25, 2016 at 10:16 pm #94469

    But I can tell he loves me. He tells all his friends that I’m his girl. I met his cousins, brother uncle. He even says I want to get married to you and have my kids. I’m not sure if he means it. Also I am 20 and he is 29 turning 30 in a couple of months so is he manipulating me. I really need some answers so I can carry on my decision.

    February 26, 2016 at 5:52 am #94479

    find another guy

    March 5, 2016 at 10:13 pm #95044

    As the saying goes, “If he cheated on her with you, he will eventually cheat on you too”…we all think, but he loves me and he would not cheat on me. Is he still living with his wife and kids? What you wrote sounds like he is not….but, has he told his wife he wants a divorce? If not, why????
    Have you met any female relatives (the guys will be cool about it and cover for him). Personally, I think you are playing with fire. If he really loves you, tell him to give you a call when he is divorced. Who wants to be the other woman? If he is living with the wife still, he is probably sleeping with her too, so she will not suspect he is seeing you.
    Respect yourself and walk away. There are a lot of wonderful men out there who are not married….and one of them is the ‘right man’ for you, not someone’s else’s man. My last question is “why did they split up?” Was he cheating on her and she found out? He’ll say no, but I wouldn’t be surprised if that was the reason. Good luck!