Fell for my fwb and don't know what to do


Fell for my fwb and don't know what to do

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    February 18, 2017 at 10:56 am #127535
    Fell for my fwb and don't know what to do

    I’ve been seeing this guy for 6mos, we’ve kept it casual but exclusive. We’ve been meeting up once a week and don’t just sleep together but cuddle, have deep conversations, share very personal details of our lives and basically have acted like bf/gf. We both have commitment issues and would have to really work to build a strong foundation but I know if we did we would be very happy together. He balances me out, calms my mind and is the only man to ever bring out my softer side. I told him I couldn’t sleep with him anymore, after I panicked and was a real jerk to him, because I’m catching feelings, we agreed to be just friends and are hang out next weekend. I think I may be in love with him and I’d rather have him as a friend then not at all. Should I tell him that if he gave me chance and dealt with a few freak outs while I get to a comfortable place that I’m actually a really great catch? I’m worried I’ll push him away completely because his issues are similar to mine.