First date had sex

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First date had sex

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    gemma
    gemma
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    February 24, 2018 at 6:11 pm #166397
    First date had sex

    We met online, chatted for a week and met the following weekend.
    We both in two different parts of the country, si came to my house and I prepared a meal which he said it was amazing, he complimented me for the 4 hours we spent together and we ended up having sex.
    Before he left he said he wanted to come again in two to theee weeks.
    H e texted me straight after he left and the following day to say he had a great time and how much he liked me.
    Then he never contacted after that.
    I texted him and he was extremely nice saying again how much he likes me. Then never texted after and it has been a week.
    I am very confused.
    I don’t want to keep pursuing him, and I don’t want him to just talk to me because I texted him first so I stepped back but he hasn’t texted since last sunday.
    Any thoughts what that is? What I should do?
    Please help

    robinpalsingh
    robinpalsingh
    Participant
    February 25, 2018 at 6:48 am #166398

    No

    Djsouthboi79
    Djsouthboi79
    Participant
    February 26, 2018 at 6:08 am #166408

    Give him a benefit of a doubt, but you’re doing the right thing. Wait til he message you first…

    iceyjay
    iceyjay
    Participant
    February 26, 2018 at 4:57 pm #166480

    Do not play mental gymnastics. Chalk it up as a lost and move on. Men know exactly what hey want.

    bigT
    bigT
    Participant
    February 27, 2018 at 6:46 pm #166533

    GenerL rule of thumb, after 3 non replies.. move on!

    Gotta kiss some frogs and long distance can be extremely hard.

    snoogans1981
    snoogans1981
    Participant
    February 28, 2018 at 1:10 pm #166597

    i agree, if he hasnt replied he is either seeing multiple women, or just used you

    LikeHoney78
    LikeHoney78
    Participant
    February 28, 2018 at 6:14 pm #166629

    I think he may be telling you what he thinks you want to hear, unfortunately, and maybe wants to keep the option of seeing you again open. However, if he’s not communicating or reaching out at all, that’s a big red flag that he’s either pursuing other women, or extremely busy (but should still be taking time out to contact you if he feels as he says he does.) I would just let him go, and find someone who will respect you enough to keep in contact.

    Mel4everable
    Mel4everable
    Participant
    March 1, 2018 at 12:18 pm #166652

    I agree with everyone above. I just think he used you or was probably feeling lonely. SWEETIE MOVE ON! You’re worth so much more than how he is treating you.

    rosezee
    rosezee
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    March 2, 2018 at 2:44 am #166686

    Yes he might just be feeling lonely

    cappygirl
    cappygirl
    Participant
    March 2, 2018 at 8:24 pm #166770
    Reply To: First date had sex

    I agree… 3 strikes and he’s out.

    sonietzo
    sonietzo
    Participant
    March 13, 2018 at 7:59 pm #167344
    Reply To: First date had sex

    If you have sex on the first date, how can you expect a guy to take you seriously in terms of dating and a relationship?

    jupiterbarefaced
    jupiterbarefaced
    Participant
    March 15, 2018 at 7:43 am #167422
    Reply To: First date had sex

    That’s very true.

    mark888
    mark888
    Participant
    March 16, 2018 at 2:23 am #167467
    Reply To: First date had sex

    it is a special privilege to be invited to visit a woman in their state and their home
    even if he doesn’t see a feasible path forward
    it is not cool for him to not respond

    but this forum isn’t the place for people to scold you for having first date sex
    that is YOUR decision and your body and your time and your business
    3 of my longest relationships started with first date sex and we were together for 2, 3 and 5 years.