First Encounter Angst


First Encounter Angst

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    January 6, 2016 at 2:12 pm #91155
    First Encounter Angst

    Met an Asian woman on Tinder over Christmas, who actually knows several of my friends from church. So after a few phone calls and texts, we meet at this place for dinner/drinks, bowling, and some other games. One of those Dave and Busters places. She claims to not drink, and I notice her eyeballing my beer, my only that night. Didn’t have any more after. So we bowl, play shuffleboard, and talked. I talked about myself, and made sure to ask questions about her. She seemed to have a really great time. No kiss after we parted, but I’m guessing it’s because she’s a little old fashioned. She texts me the next day, saying she had a great time. A couple of texts go by over the weekend, and I say I’ll give her a buzz that Monday. She says she “has plans each night with work and school–will hit you up later”. So I’m wondering how much time I should wait to contact her again, wait for her to do it, or if she’s trying to give a subtle hint she’s not that interested anymore. Thanks.