first friends now….


first friends now….

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    September 26, 2013 at 9:49 pm #40134
    first friends now….

    So myself and a really good friend went out west for a vacation this past summer. Things happened and feelings developed between us while on vacation. When we returned back home things developed further and there were strong mutual feelings between us. She had been with girls before, I had not, so this was all new to me but because i was sure about how i felt, i was completely comfortable. A couple weeks after we got back she asked to talk to me and told me that she had feelings for me and wanted to pursue something further with me but she couldn’t right now. She continued to tell me that she was seeing someone before we went out west and it was really complicated but she is not seeing her anymore, but this other person’s friendship is really important to her and she needs to figure out how she fits in her life before she can continue with anything with me. Its been over a month and we have somewhat drifted apart lately, however i know there are still feelings there. I fear it is going to get to a point of no return and i don’t want that to happen. I am really into her and she is amazing, and she has repeatedly said the same to me. I don’t want to pressure her or pry but i have no clue where her head space is and not sure what, where, or how to go/move forward from here. I want to be with her, and I’m the type of person who likes to live in the moment, don’t put off til tomorrow what you can do today. Any advice?