First kiss fail


First kiss fail

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    December 28, 2017 at 6:51 pm #161076
    First kiss fail

    I met this guy on bumble months ago. Since our initial meet up in May, we’ve probably met up 5 other times. It always goes the same, we grab a drink, catch up, he tells me he wants to see me again, and nothing happens. He’s never once made a move so I honestly didn’t know if he was interested or not. So this past time we hung out and it was the same as usual. After our few drinks, he walked me to my car and I thought we were just going to hug goodbye like we always do. Nope. I’m in the middle of a sentence we haven’t even said goodbye yet and he leans in to kiss me. I was taken aback and without even thinking I say “are you trying to kiss me?” And it went down hill from there. I proceeded to say I wanted to kiss him but I made it awkward now. And then he said yea and just kinda walked away. I’ve never made a first kiss more awkward. And I actually did want to kiss him it was just unexpected. So now I don’t know how to proceed and express my interest without embarrassing myself further.

    From Outer Space
    From Outer Space
    December 28, 2017 at 6:56 pm #161077

    That’s the thing . . . in love you shouldn’t be afraid to embarrass yourself.

    It wasn’t entirely your fault. Sounds like his timing was awkward, and I promise you that he’s embarrassed about it, too. Just tell him straight up you’d like another try at that first kiss.

    December 29, 2017 at 8:55 pm #161109

    Dont be so scared, its okay.

    December 31, 2017 at 12:29 am #161124

    Don’t even mention it, just lean in and go for it, that usually works. He probably won’t resist it, as you guys have seen each other a few times, so a first kiss seems to be in order at this point. So my best advice is to just go for it.

    January 1, 2018 at 12:43 am #161137

    Seems like one of you just need to go for it the next time you meet up!

    January 1, 2018 at 12:29 pm #161150

    He’s probably really shy, I think it would help a lot if you went for the kiss next time